ok middle school used to b good.im in the eighth right now but i got in a fight with my math teacher and umm... he transfered me and blah blah blah yeah i've told people about this story many times before on Y!answers. hehe just read my other questions and you'll noe.anyways, school is hell now. i feel lonely. the teachers are just AWFUL. everyone is so loud because the math and science teacher (both the same teacher) don't know how to control the class. and we aren't learning anything because tehy transfered me here. anyways, im getting over this because i know in a few months, ill b going to a new school with new teachers. but the thing is. i don't wanna go to highschool. but i don't wanna stay in middle school niether. i want to get this year over with but i don't wanna go to higschool niether because once at highschool, i would have to depond on myself. more homework and soon, it's colledge. how can i overcome my fears of highschool and middle school without hating both?
2007-01-06 20:43:35 · 6 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I know how you feel, Every One feels the same. You have a difficult choice here. It is either finishing this year and the next four or learn the phrase "Do you want fries with that?"
I see you have already figured out, the teachers put the information in front of you BUT you have to learn it yourself. Since the federal Government created the Department of Education (1977), education in American schools has continued downhill. You need to decide and soon what you want out of life. If you just want to do the minimum, put in the minimum, you will get the minimum back.
If you can, talk to your parents about the way you feel. If you cannot, perhaps a friends parent(s) that you trust may be able to help.
Please understand everyone who has intelligence has fears of high school and middle school. This is normal. If you did not have those fears, something would be wrong.
Everyone who has stood in front of a large group of people has the fear they are going to look like a fool in front of them, the fear something is going to go wrong and you will not be able to properly handle it. IT IS NORMAL and in some ways good. It is designed to keep you on your toes. I wish I knew that when I was in school. I kept to myself. I had few friends. Now, I still have very few friends. Those that I have are good friends. They help me and I help them.
I am sorry; you had a bad time with one or more teachers. I have no idea what happened, but put it behind you. It is over. There are a lot of bad teachers. Do not tell them that. They probably know it. They are afraid they will be found out and do not want a kid to tell them. If a kid can, how long will it be before the administrators do?
Most of the people in school, the students do not want to be there so they make a joke about it. They do not understand the entire purpose of school is to learn how to learn. THAT IS IT.
When you get out of school and you do not know how to learn, you will not go much further than a low level burger turner.
From your statements, I can see you are better than that. You know how to think, and it is apparent you use your brain. You are half way there. Do not give up on yourself.
Sorry, this was so long. You appear to be one that is worth my time and effort. So I do not feel bad about going long on my thoughts. I just do not want you to give up.
Can you get into another Math and science class? Will the counselors listen? Will your parents help? Brother and / or sister?
2007-01-06 21:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you used to be good. Then you are genuinely GOOD, so be yourself and be good. Do not be afraid, you have done it and can do it again. Make an effort of respecting your teachers. They do not make a lot of $$, and they chose teaching because they love to teach. Do not kill the passion of those who are willing to give themselves so that we can have better generations. Your teachers do not need to learn what they already know. You are the one who needs them. Do not repeat the same mistakes. Stay in school, do your very best and you will have a brighter future. Take care!
2007-01-06 21:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel like you. Yes high school can be scary if its your first time going there, but then once the first day is over you feel that its not soo bad after all. Trust me have fun in high school, so you won't have any regrets in life.
2007-01-06 20:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by ******* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh grow up. You need school especially spelling class!....... anyways going to a new school for the first time is always scary. you are going to hate it because you are making yourself want to hate it. you think your life is bad now because of school..... wait till your all grown up out on your own!
enjoy being a kid cause your an adult a LOT longer!
2007-01-06 20:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might go to the social worker, or councler at you school and discuss this with him or her.
2007-01-06 20:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋