.....And think they really love you too?
Please explain how u felt beign with them...and how u got out and how long it took to get over them etc...etc...etc...
2007-01-06 20:10:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It really kills. But I'll tell you a small incident.
In 2003 I was suffering from this period. One of my senior colleague was watching me very closely. He asked me? After knowing all he told me
" Listen if you are sad about someone then it is sure that person is sad for you too. If he/she is not then there is no point for you being so sad"
These words help me a lot to recover.
Take up a new hobby my friend it will help you a lot. Best of luck.
Life waits for no one. It just goes on........ Keep walking.
2007-01-06 20:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! I was in a really bad relationship for 4 years. Yes, it took me that long to end it. I got beat. I got a concussion from my head hitting a refrigerator, I have a scar on my butt from a gun/ I also have numerous scars on my chest and butt from cigarette burns. He cheated on me etc etc etc. But it still took my dumb *** 4 years to get out & call my mommy & daddy for help. & when I did & got out & found my own home I still let him come around. I had told him I loved him too much to let him make me hate him. I felt like sleeping beauty w/ him waiting to wake up one day & find prince charming That day never comes. You have to realize that inside you there is something special & worth loving & if you *EVER* have to think about loving someone or being loved then something is wrong True love like what I've found now (2years after Christian) needs no thinking upon it just is & that is all that matters. Sometimes people want true love sooooo bad they are ready to settle for less than what they realy deserve, & thats not fair to them, Wait & suffer through the trials & you'll just know when youve found it.. I'm sorry & I really hope this made sence because I was a little bit tipsy in my answer. Good luck
2007-01-07 04:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by f23bunnie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it feels like you are dying inside. being with him was the sun, the moon and the stars all wrapped up every day. then I realized after years of marriage that he was very mean-spirited and to save my sanity, I left. that was 8 years ago and I still miss him but I know he was not a nice person. One moves on!!!!!
2007-01-07 09:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup I definantly had to do this.okay so I really cared about the guy but he cheated and lied and ditched me and played with my emotions
so by playin with my emotions I MEAN whenever i WENT to talk to him.. he would ignore me.. and stuff it would ruin my mood
so I broke it off with him... I didnt date for a while after that... it didnt take me too long... because... I also liked someone else at the time.. like... I loved him but he didnt treat me right so I wasnt gonna get stay with him.. so I moved on.... and... then.. my next 3 boyfriends... didnt go well either... and... then along the way I got played by a guy i DIDNT date...
and then I got hurt for half of those times
and then finally got.. to... the guy Im dating right now... which is amazing... finally a decent guy... he treats me well... so... i found what I want:D
But see with me... Theres sooo many guys out there
after dating one guy.. n if say we broke up.. i have more of a positive attitude while getting out of it.. like ya theres more fish in the sea.. and theres always someone better out there type thing .. just gave me confidence on moving on... but like I really hate being lied to its beyond cheating ... u know cheating is one thing to me if u admit to what u are doing wrong.. but when u findo ut.. and then they deny it.. really makes me angry.. its like u cant even be honest with me
In my opinion the most important things in a relationship are trust, honesty, communication , and being able to commit to the person and then would come things in common and stuff but like ... I am really strict on honesty and trust and communication... if I cant talk to the guy about anything... i try to fix that.. like.. its like I cant be myself around the guy and i cant have that. and.. trust... if I cant trust him to be decent enough not to cheat or lie to me.. then... I dont see why I should waste my time.
2007-01-07 04:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋