Why do men expect women to wear high heels and thongs?

Question

High heels, corsets, thongs, tights are UNCOMFORTABLE after a while. Why do we have to wear these stuff for the pleasure of men? A english teacher I know wear high heel sandals every day EVEN WHEN IT'S SNOWING! Either she has happy feet or she smiles to cover her pain.

Answer 1

Hello!

I do sympathize with women who undergo such ordeals, especially the ones who wear corsettes. I am not aware as to why we men like women who wear such attires. Although it does attract a man significantly. Sometimes simplicity is attractive, on most accounts however, a man will be attracted to such women wearing high heels etc.

Regards,
Vinay

Answer 2

Your stereotyping men,,and for your answer i went to a local club and asked over 30 men your question. There were a few demanding perverts there but for the most part,,me along with many of those men i poled really don't demand that type of attire. We all agree that thongs have to be uncomfortable. For the man that demands it,,he's looking at all the wrong feature's in a woman if it's the one he loves. You women are sometimes a mans trophy and that's not love.

Answer 3

It is a shame that some women still believe that they have to dress like that to attract men. (And what kind of men are they attracting?!) The problem is that most of the popular media is controlled by men, and a woman's dignity is not an issue. Many music videos not only feature women in scanty clothes,but also dancing suggestively. Many of the women object to this, but say that if they want to get hired, they have no choice. When consumers stop buying these videos, and magazines, and refuse to buy products advertised in that way, it will stop. Vote with your checkbook!

Answer 4

Women dress up for themselves and sometimes for each other more than they do it for men. Many of the questions in this category are rooted in women's desire to purchase or wear some item of clothing that makes them look beautiful and feel good about themselves.

You are right that many of the items you mentions are restrictive or somewhat uncomfortable. But they create an inner sense of satisfaction and beauty for the wearer that outweighs the little discomfort.

Answer 5

High heels do make women sexier, sometimes you have to pay a price if you like attracting more males, even if a little uncomfortable wearing it, remember, High heels and pantyhose goes together.

Answer 6

This torture that women suffer is self inflicted.
I don't know any men that expect or desire "high heels"....except maybe cross dressers.

I think the average man may show more interest in women who wears that sort of attire for obvious reasons.....but it is ultimately your choice to wear it. I personally find TIGHT clothing a turn off....I much more prefer a woman who looks like she has her act together...professionally dressed with clothes that fit appropriately

I certainly don't like slouchy clothes that cover a woman's shape...but neither should she like my clothes if they are ill fitted.

Answer 7

Who wears corsets anymore?? That's so 18th century.

I like dressing up and everything but I am definately not doing it to impress men, I wear what I wear because I like it. And that is how it should be.

I think thongs are stupid as well. It's like butt floss. Why anyone would want like, a string up their butt is beyond me.

Answer 8

I honestly cant believe people are willing to wear thongs every day. eww..not only are thgey uncomfortable but they chafe lke mad. I have to admit I like wearing corsets though(but only for a short period of time). As for heels, they cause spider veins and thats just gross.

Answer 9

We men do not compete with you for male attention. It is in your nature to do those things to attract us males. This is a way of showing your dominance over other females. Most of us guys would prefer a relaxed woman to be around, but that corset, high heels, and thong stuff is on females alone.

Answer 10

Each to their own---I prefer comfort, some find that in heels?