how to deal with professional jealousy?

Question

i always had bad luck in relationships,because of it.right now,my husband just cant stand the fact that i am what i am.i mean,i am an art teacher,a chef,and a bussines manager.right now i work as a head chef.i speak 5 languages.and he is jealous about it.everytime he brings it up,i just say its not my fault,i took the time to educate my self and be what i am.i am so tired of this bull.i am starting to think,there's no man out there,that would acept me,like that.is like guys,want dumb girls or something.i always thought a man,would be proud of a woman like me.but,i seem to atract,a holes.where's the guys that wont mind a girl like me?i ask my self,and my answer is,somewhere,just have not been lucky enough to have one.its not fair.guys,what you think?

Answer 1

Sounds like you select men who are less educated than yourself so you can flaunt your education. Try dating men with more smarts and education, and try being a little more humble.

Answer 2

Well, besides the fact that I doubt that you speak 5 languages because your English is wretched, I think that you have met the wrong sort of men. Men who are also educated or at least intelligent enough to know that education is one of the most valuable things a human being can have are less likely to treat you like a girl or feel like their masculinity is being threatened. These men are ignorant. Hopefully, your husband learns to see women as persons instead of girls and ditches his ignorant attitude. He's an a r s e.

Answer 3

Why did you marry your husband? I think you are very clever academically, but not in relationships. It sounds like you are overpowering your hubby and I think that is what the problem is. He does not feel that he has an equal say in things. It seems that both of you need to go to a relationship workshop and discover each other and start to respect each other as is and make adjustments to both your attitudes. Marriage is a work in progress....

good luck