Everyone wants to be themselves in a marriage but what if being yourself kills the magic? What should be done and why?
2007-01-06 19:20:51 · 10 answers · asked by ...huh... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think that once in a while you should shake it up....and keep them on their toes....because you never know....
if it grows stale....who wants to eat meatloaf when you can eat steak....or eat a cracker when you can have ritzs crackers...
2007-01-13 11:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The magic ends when being your self implies become a jerk. WHen you were dating you wouldn't brush your teeth when she was around or you would't burp or do so many things that people start doing when they live together and those "personal" things sometimes have to be kept for yourself. Man sometimes can be so disgusting, or slopy and that kills the magic very quick.
2007-01-12 12:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by powerkittykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by too much comfort. Be yourself, yes, but don't let yourself go by gaining weight, not looking nice for your spouse, and in general not putting effort into making your partner happy and attracted to you.
2007-01-07 03:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally. The women has to concentrate on changing her appearance and body shape and hair color to suit the ever-changing fantasies of her husband, because lord knows, he's entitled to DIFFERENT, and if it's not supplied, he'll go looking for it. Comfort has gotta be the number one killer of marriage.
2007-01-07 03:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if being yourself kills the magic, then you really didn't have any magic to begin with.
2007-01-07 03:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are very comfortable in our marriage...and anything we've said to each other hasn't killed it. n
2007-01-07 03:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..both tend to get lasy and loose sight of each other..taqke each other for granted
2007-01-13 00:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by mpefg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words.
DATE NIGHT
yes like when you and your spouse were dating.
Just now while you are married.
2007-01-07 03:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who you are, if you don't get along with each other then you know what to do. someone out there will love how you are
2007-01-07 03:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by littlehuevo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-12 19:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tkenya J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋