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i never really understood how or why relationships or lack thereof make people bitter and jaded, but now i think i understand. and it hurts.

2007-01-06 19:17:09 · 5 answers · asked by RSDX 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Don't let it hurt you. Just don't get too involved with one person. You need to go out with many partners before you can figure out who is right for you. You probably had some unrealistic expectations when you had your first relationship, but you should have the expectation that you will go through many relationships before settling on the right one for you. Don't feel bad. At least you didn't get stupid and get married.

2007-01-06 19:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0 0

You had a few go bad, did ya? Welcome to the dating nightmare. I used to think the oldish 50 something women were all a bunch of bitter old bats, but after relating with men for the last 20 years, I know exactly why they are so bitter. Men are designed entirely to be the exact opposite of compatible, but never is it up to HIM to change, WE have to compromise, take a course on psychology to be able to have a straight conversation with him, and they can destroy whatever they want because they are stronger. Men make hating them the easiest thing one earth. It's too bad it's all such a disappointing waste of time.

2007-01-07 03:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am sorry for your hurt. Unfortunately this is the risk we take when we engage in relationships, but, it is worth it to risk.

2007-01-07 03:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by jom 4 · 0 0

When mental levels dont match,relationships suffer.Now you understand.

2007-01-07 03:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0 0

ok, we get it, you've been dumped
but there's no question here
there's nothing to say other than the fact that if your not good enough for her than you need to find someone good enough for you

2007-01-07 03:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by mintman16 2 · 0 0

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