my friend broke up with her boyfriend not to long a go and she is 7 months pregnant with is child.they had been going together for almost 2 years. and now i know when i see her on monday morning she gonna be wonting advice on what she should do .and i dont know what to do or tell her...so any advice on what to tell her would be helpfull. she only 16 and her perants does no she is pregnant.
2007-01-06 19:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hi there youre friend is lucky to have a friend like you .......so her and the father have broke up ......does she have a good relationship with her mum and dad ......if not then you could maybe get her to start talking to them again as they are the babys grandparents and they are also going to be able to offer more support to there daughter .....and no matter what has gone on between them they will want to know that she is ok ......ask her when she last eat ....see what her response is and if she is really not able to answer that tell her that she needs to eat and look after her self as her baby needs her to do that .....youre friend is ging to be all over the place with her feeling and emotions and this will go on til after the birth but it will settle back down again and if it doesnt then get her to the doctor as she could be suffering from postnatal depression it is caused by all the feelings and emotions being turned upside down but can be sorted out she will just need a bit of support and that is why im suggesting that you get her talking with her parents .......take care xx
2007-01-06 21:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents don't know? Has she been seeing a doctor? Pregnant women need to be under the care of a Doctor. There are many dangerous conditions both the mother and unborn baby could have and without care can result in tragedy. There are condiitons that can kill a mother if not treated.
If she is your friend, you need to tell her parents or ask your parents to talk to hers. She might get mad at you but a true friend would do the right thing.
2007-01-07 09:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her no matter what, she is about to be someones mother and that means wether she has a "man" (babys father) by her side or not, her child is going to need her more than anything or anyone in this world. Tell her that at times it may be tough and seem unbearable, but hard times come and go and even though she is young, as long as she loves her child which is truly a gift from god, and walk down a right path....then everything will be okay.
2007-01-07 03:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her parents. Go and turn him in for child support. She will need the money bad. If he wants a dna done then have one done.Use your head wisely because it can back fire on you. Good Luck!!!!!
2007-01-07 03:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her to take care of herself so that she can take care of her baby, stay strong. move on b/c their too young to be that serious anyway and Worry about finishing school, which is what she should have been doing in the first place.
2007-01-07 03:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one question.
if shes 7 months pregnant how can her parents not notice?
and yes i understand that not all women get real big but you cant tell me that they haven't gotten suspicious
2007-01-07 18:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by <3Shortay 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess you should be telling her to tell her parents. Just listen to her and tell her to tell her mom.
2007-01-07 03:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she considered adoption ? I am looking to adopt ,
2007-01-07 07:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jess S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋