I'm having suspicions of someone, so I want to be able to react properly. I want honest and ideal reactions please.
2007-01-06 18:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Say...cool. And let him lead the rest of the conversation. It's not a big deal so try not to make it into one.
2007-01-06 18:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lynda M ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tito !!!
Look, you said it yourself , HE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND!!!
So nothing should change!!! Why will something like that change your relationship with your best friend????
Probably right now is that he needs you the most??? People shouldn't be measure for their sexualities preferences. gay people are just regular people with different needs!!!
Why is that everyone insist in making this an issue??? I'm a Christian, and for all I know as in the Bible says, the "homosexuals", will NOT enter the kingdom of GOD. But guess what that is between GOD and them!!!
As for me, I suggest you don't change your friendship, for that reason!!! Probably you have worst friends, but they are NOT LABEL YET!!! An advise from a CHRISTIAN, keep your friendship, what ever his sexual preferences are shouldn't be your concern. Let GOD take care of him. And if you really care for him, try talking about this as an input, some knowledge.
Stick to your friend, he is first a human being that deserves respect and love. And most of gay people are harmless, friendly lovable and usually very honest.
It is NOT our job to judge. No one is perfect!!!
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY FRIENDSHIP
ALLIV Z
2007-01-06 19:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you have suspicions if he tells you he is gay you will probably be surprised. but don't be a dick about it. Try to be understanding..not everyone is the same and if they are gay there isn't anything wrong with them. Just listen to what they have to say and be cool with it..if you two are good friends you should have no real problem supporting his choice.
2007-01-06 18:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a good friend, and he told you to that he was gay, just stay the way you're. He'll remain the same friend as before. I've best friend he's gay, and we're still good friend for 20 years.
2007-01-07 00:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jo-Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your suspicious so you already know this is a possibility, and you are still his friend. So just say okay, and if you choose you can tell him you thought he might be. It may make it easier for him to be open with you, knowing that you knew something was up before he told you and you still chose to be his friend. Might make a difference knowing you didn't decide to stay his friend after he told you...
2007-01-06 19:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by nena b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about it? Well, obviously, it makes you feel uncomfortable, but think about your friend. It took a lot of courage to tell you this, probably. Not to mention, he trusts you that much.
Honestly, this is just another test of how strong your bond is. What will the result of the test be?
It's up to you, and good luck.
-hitzusen
2007-01-06 18:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by hitzusen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd see it coming. I have a good sense when it comes to guys, personally. Well just take a moment and say "Okay, thats great." but I think that there would naturally be a moment of ah... awkwardness. Its a touchy subject. Just act natural and respectful/understanding.
2007-01-06 18:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was gay what would it change between you two? be a friend for him and try to be open about it. if he was gay before he told you then nothing would change after he told you because you would still see him as the friend he was before.
2007-01-06 18:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Erick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge your friend by if they're gay or not.
Gay or not gay, wouldn't make a difference.
If he's gay then he's gay, no big deal.
If you're a true friend you wouldn't care.
I would just not make a big deal out of it.
& if they need help or anything , i'll help them.
No big deal. No difference, that's what friends are for.
2007-01-06 18:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should continue being his friend. after all, if u never found out he was gay u would still wanna be his friend right? his sexual preference has nothing to do with your friendship...u might be uncomfortable at first, but u'll get over it as long as hes not trying to hook up with you, u guys are still best friends.
2007-01-06 18:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋