telling me to keep in touch with him he gives me his p.o box number his private phone number then when I write or call he gets anoyed says i think he gave me a comitment which I don't think at all I do like him and we have been friends a while but why is he one min asking me "gee I thought you had forgotten me" then when I get in touch get annoyed I said well I won't contact you any more his answer to that was no don't do that just be nice to me I will admit I sometimes get pretty cranky with him because I don't understand just what it is he is wanting from me anyone out there with any ideas thanks
2007-01-06 17:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by flossypants 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think he is overwhelmed or stressed out by some issue(s) which he may hesitate or not know how to tell you in details. If you still likes him and cares for him, try to undertand what he has gone through. He may need someone to be considerate and able to talk with about his issue(s). He may not be able to open up first to let you know all about that but if you keep in touch with him and remain supportive to him, he will feel appreciated. Just keep a positive attitude toward him. Who knows? One day he may let you know all the things you've never known before which can have a dramatic effect on your relationship between him. Good luck.
2007-01-06 18:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by flower.arrangement 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you will return to his life when he stops acting bipolar and can figure out what he wants. Sounds like a dramatic waste of time and personally, I wouldn't want to be in a close friendship/relationship with someone that confused. When he grows up, then maybe.
2007-01-07 02:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by babygrlpls 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
give him some time,is not easy to make your mind in this days with all the stress and everyday's problems,remenber the best relationships allways have a slow start then later it gets better!
2007-01-07 02:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by READY OR NOT HERE I COME ! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Instead of beating yourself up over this situation I would find someone else to try to talk to because obviously he doesn't know what he wants. He sounds like he has some issues that he doesn't know how to deal with himself.
2007-01-07 01:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds as if he is crazy
2007-01-07 02:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by L. R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think he understands what he wants either..........that happens to us men
2007-01-07 01:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋