I'm 17, and the reason why I explored my sexualtiy was this type of fantasy. Is this true for a lot of youth?
2007-01-06 17:37:42 · 11 answers · asked by hs guy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Like many have said, this obviously isn't a 'prevalent' fantasy. I'm sure many do have that, and that's fine. The only reason I can imagine is 1) it's part of natural curiosity. When you start getting into the gay scene, you come across many sub-groups, including 'bears'- older, often larger, hairy men, who are well-loved and adored by many (unlike in the straight community- where they, and similar older, larger women, are demeaned). The fact that they are often considered sexy is reason enough to dally on them and maybe have a fantasy or two. And 2) It has to do with what they stand for. Big mature men are the perfect embodiment of domination and experience in the way of initiating a young gay man. Those elements might factor into the eroticism of a fantasy with them, particularly since porn seems to uphold the image.
Those are some reasons I might imagine. But remember that not every young gay teen has these sort of fantasies.
2007-01-07 13:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be daft, there is not something incorrect with a guy wanting a sexually mature lady. they could be guidelines the position ever you stay that say someone can't have sexual relationships till they're a particular age which for sure must be obeyed, yet in case you verify out historic previous women human beings were getting married at 15 and 16 and residing completely accepted and chuffed lives. you may't deny human beings their threat free fantasies. There are guidelines already to guard youthful women human beings from being abused by folk in positions of authority like instructors and docs. for sure being interested in women or boys that are pubescent or pre pubescent is a diverse kettle of fish and something it truly is not ideal.
2016-12-01 22:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by northcut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily no a fantasy is a personal thing that each of us have but dont always act out.
If you find obese men your deal then who is to tell you that your wrong a fantasy is each to their own exploring ones sexuality is also part of growing up and becoming aware of ones own body to shall we say taste the same or opposite sex is natural you just have to remember to be of legal consent and your partner also be safe sex
2007-01-07 00:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by shannara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not for me, but then again I'm a lesbian :) I tend to go for youthful-in-body but older-in-mind types.
Maybe you like the older type because they've got more life experience and are level-headed, and obese because that infers that they live reasonably comfortable lives/can provide well.
2007-01-06 18:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nonsense. Why, older men & obese men are the most despised groups within the gay world.
I say this is a fiction. Younger gay guys like slim,, buff, glamorous
cuties.
Only the freaks go for what you mentioned.
2007-01-06 17:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, I've fantasized about older men, but not obese men. I don't know how true it is for all youth, but you can't help what you're attracted to.
2007-01-06 17:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh thats not my fantasy. I'm 16, and i DO like older guys but not obese...but hey whatever floats your boat :)
2007-01-06 20:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by BlondBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must not be the majority of gay teens than?
2007-01-06 17:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but their a 51 year old that wannts me not going to happen cause i only go for teens
2007-01-06 17:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by gay boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? I didn't have a clue.
I Cr 13;8a
1-7-7
Still don't. But I like girls.
2007-01-06 17:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋