My cuz and a friend of mine have decided to be friends with "benfits" and hes 3 years older than her and hes 16, what do you think i should do. cuz i know what he wants?
2007-01-06 17:37:09 · 12 answers · asked by cowboyslikerockandroll 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Honestly, it's really none of your business. And how do you kow what he wants? Not all guys are just looking for sex.
2007-01-06 17:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleigh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though this really isn't any of your business, you really should consider telling him if he wants to have a sexual relationship, no matter how extreme it may be, he needs to find someone at least his age. A 13 year old is far too young, and she probably doesn't understand what the consequences could be if they made a wrong decision.
2007-01-06 17:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do is just tell her to be careful and to always think twice about what can happen. If she doesnt get it oh well at least you tried and just like everyone said just stay out afterwards
2007-01-06 19:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by obst1510 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you know right from wrong!! Be the one who puts it out there bout everything that could go wrong with all of the "benefits". Maybe just voicing your opinion would help.
2007-01-06 17:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by karen s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you already know what friends with benefits is..just that.he getting the benefits even though they arent togetha..and if this is a really close friend and you think she will just end up hurt, I would say dont let them do that
2007-01-06 19:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is 16 and is three years older than her then she is 13 and 13 is too young, in my opinion, to engage in any kind of sexual activity. period. plus, as a male at 16 he is sexually mature. as a female at 13 she has barely begun to mature sexually. he could hurt, as in injure her physically, her. I'd tattle. yep. screw him.
2007-01-06 17:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by Finnis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have to do anything? It doesn't involve you, so stay out of it. Let them decide what they want.
2007-01-06 17:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant really do much let them make there own decsions and if one of them ends up getting hurt then just be there for them and help them out.
2007-01-06 19:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by xXxLil-D3viLxXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothin they're only 3 years apart and if they want to have sex then thts they're decision and not urs
2007-01-06 17:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by ♥~Jeff Hardy's babe~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww that is pretty gross that your 13 year old friend is going to go have sex with your cousin. Tell her that is not safe, she is going to get raped and maybe pregnent!!!
2007-01-06 17:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋