2007-01-06 16:57:11 · 15 answers · asked by Kandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well ya'll should've broken up the very first time you cheated...and if she's cheating to get back at you...then she's stupid, cause if BOTH of you look for someone else to f*ck instead of each other....then WHY DA HELL ARE YA'LL TOGETHER!?
I mean unless BOTH of you can accept an open relationship, which i seriously doubt, it ain't gonna happen.
Honestly man if you gotta cheat why get into a relationship period? Just go be a playa, do porn and get paid for bein scandalous...and tell you girlfriend cheating isn't a smart way to get back at anyone...cause honestly why would you care when you're cheating in the first place? Not to mention now she'll just get branded as a slut because of the dumb *** decision to go cheat. Should've just left your *ss and THEN hooked up wit the dude...the right f*Ckin way.
2007-01-06 17:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While the 1st answer was humorous, and pretty true, i disagree. You both cheated. Could have been for same reason, or could not have. Maybe one was tired of the other, or vise versa. Maybe one was getting back at the other. Whatever the matter, its obvious the two of you are not in a committed relationship where you can both be faithful to each other. Learn from the experience, move on, and don't do it to others. Being cheated on hurts big time.
2007-01-06 17:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are not really happy with each other if you have to cheat. You both are cheaters, so why not just stop acting like you two are bf/gf and move on. Each will cheat on each, both need to go do what they want. This is not a good relationship. Both is not worth keeping.
2007-01-06 17:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider rephrasing your words. "Cheat" is something you do to yourself, not to another. If you honor yourself, if you are true to your own commitments, and you then dishonor your commitment, who is it that is "cheated"? So, learn to first love yourself, to honor yourself, to acknowledge that you are great and wonderful and to accept yourself without judgment. Remember, you will always do the best you can. If you can learn to truly honor yourself, then you will find that you will only be attracted to those who honor themselves. Using your words, that means neither you nor your partner will "cheat". Consider that if you find another person more attractive, even for a brief period, does honoring yourself call for you to break the first relationship and go with the new relationship? Or, having learned that the first is by far the better, do you decide to more fully commit to the first? Your decision. Honor yourself.
2007-01-06 17:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are both cheating you aren't really commited to the relationship. I dunno how true it is, but there is a saying "Once a cheater always a cheater." If it's true maybe you're both just not relationship kinda people. Depends on you both and how you feel about it more over.
2007-01-06 17:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by QuestionQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up but don't get into other relationships that you will screw up with your unfaithfullness. Grow up some more first before you hurt some unknowing person!
2007-01-06 17:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should, obviously you do not want a committed, monogamous relationship. If you are both cool with seeing other people, if that is OK with you both, then carry on.
2007-01-06 17:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It clearly shows that you both are looking for other people, so id move on.
2007-01-06 17:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, two wrongs could make a right!
2007-01-06 17:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You deserve each other. Why screw up two other people?
2007-01-06 16:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋