2007-01-06 16:54:26 · 17 answers · asked by samantha s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men are stupid...He'll leave clues...They always do.
2007-01-06 16:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by mightycute912 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time and karma.....but in all honesty, you will NEVER know unless such a thing happens. If the man is seriously guilty, signs will reveal themselves in the most obvious way, karma wise he's human...he'll f*ck up one day and then BAM..your evidence will be right there in your face.
BUT it doesn't always happen like that...although i find men are much more pathetic in the arts of infidelity, in a woman's case it's amazing how i've heard stories from my friend's girlfriends about how they cheat on their men for over 5 freakin years and the dudes are completely oblivious to it. Not to mention you will NEVER truly know unless you can catch them in the act, and if they're inteligent, the likelyhood of you finding out is from little to none...especially long distance relationships.
So with that being said, a lot of times ignorance IS bliss....of course unless you catch a disease or someone knocks on your door cause she has your husband's baby. But don't overwhelm yourself with that concept, in fact give it time, it will reveal itself soon, justice prevails, however long it takes it WILL prevail, and you'll find out soon enough, or at least still be happy with the love you GENUINELY offer...and is hopefully offered BACK in return. It's very difficult to try and love 2 people at the same time with the same amount of love and effort....so the relationship ITSELF will be evident enough to hint the truth.
2007-01-07 01:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is anything like a few of the "men" giving you answers- why would you want him in the first place ? If a man will lie as a way of life ; not look you in the eye when he talks ; spend long periods away from home in secret -you can bet he's cheating in some form or another .
2007-01-07 01:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he gets in bed with you smell his skin if smells like soap then you no.If he doesn't smell like soap then feel his penis if sticky then you no.When he falls asleep go and check his car out for hair or anything out of the ordinary .Passenger seat moved up radio on different station.Biggest clue is working late and telling you he won't be home for dinner.Not talking to you or leaving room when you walk in.I could go on and on but I think you got the message.
2007-01-07 01:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will notice different signs, just who cares cheat back on hm I would. Men think they are smart and what they dont know is we are so much smarter. You know this is true. If he is cheating leave his a-- ! There are so many men out there. they all lie and say you will never find better, just believe in yourself and you will see, trust me!!! Woman rule, and are smarter than men at the game of love!!
2007-01-07 00:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask him - face to face, with eye contact. Men usually can't lie when you catch them unaware. By the way - some women can be quite naive/oblivious - I personally heard of a few married dudes having g/f, mistresses (whatever you like to call them) for years but never been found out. Maybe some wives just "don't want to know" ??
2007-01-07 01:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They say that the one being cheated on is the last one to know.. I doubt it with most wives.. Most wives will know that moment he walks in the door. If the wive is really desperate, she can always hire a Private Investigator..
2007-01-07 00:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Ask him
2) Smell him
3) Set a trap for him with a female friend of yours
4) Private detective
Is he acting different? "Strange" e-mails and/or voice mails? Coming home at different times? Does not like you asking him where he has been for the last _____ hours?
javypeds,
Florida
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http://360.yahoo.com/javypeds
2007-01-07 00:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get voice activated recorders and hide them in his car or in his house.they have some that can hold 3 and more hours. they only come on when someone talks.you can follow him in someones car he doesn't know. set him up have a girl friend that he doesn't know try to pick up on him and see if he goes for it.
2007-01-07 01:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pay attention, the signs will come out. Men are not good at lying or hiding like they think they are.
2007-01-07 00:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a friend and follow him, unless you have the means to hire a private eye.
2007-01-07 01:08:02 · answer #11 · answered by 911RN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋