I met on internet a australian and we decide marry but never met in real. Just on msn, with webcam. 02 years now that we just chat. He is my life. What you think.. We going crazy? If never met in real. I tried turism visa and i not get it that why we will marry without meet first. I love he.
2007-01-06 16:45:27 · 8 answers · asked by SiLVaNna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go for it. I had been writing to a woman from Indonesia for a year and was very much in love with her even though we had never met. She was denied a tourist visa. Everyone said I was crazy, but I went to Indonesia. We are still very much in love and just had our 8th year anniversary last month.
Yes, it's crazy to decide to marry someone you never met. But it's worse to never find out if your love is true. You'll live a lifetime of regret if you don't meet him. Tell him to come to Brazil and marry you there. When my wife was denied a tourist visa, I promised her that I would come to her even if I had to swim across the ocean to do so. I was serious, though luckily it didn't come to that.
Good luck!
2007-01-06 17:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot go to him, ask him to come to you . . . for a visit.
I don't know Australian law . . . but he could petition you with a fiancee visa . . . (I am not sure if they have one.) In the US . . . you will need to get married within 6 months of arriving in the country or leave. It is possible Australia has one too.
But, you two need to meet first . . . you both need to talk, about each other, your likes, your dislikes . . . over the internet it is easy to mask things . . . have you both been totally honest with each other. Talking about the bad as well as the good . . . or have you been cybering most of the time.
Examine you heart . . . have him come and meet you and your family. No obligation of anything . . . then wait another six month . . . and then he should be able to petition you to Australia (because a fiancee visa don't normally work unless you have been with each other . . . and not sexually. You need documented proof.
2007-01-09 14:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just came back from Brazil after working with a lady named Sylvana. You should meet in a public place and do a reality check. What you imagine he is may not be what he is in real life. Ask yourself, "Why must he go online to find a girl?"
2007-01-07 00:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by mojonah 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im sure u feel it is love(and it sure can be) but i think u should wait to meet in person at least and maybe spend some time together.getting married is sooooo huge step to make.plz wait a litlle more.
2007-01-07 09:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by simona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy to marry him. Get to know the REAL person before you make a HUGE mistake!!!!
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2007-01-07 00:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make sure he is not going to take advantage of you, be safe, meet in a safe place, get to know him face to face then go ahead and marry!
2007-01-07 00:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Uzlu2919 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd think this over again? You have to be careful with people on the internet.
2007-01-07 00:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by starsperhaps 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't u think u are too lucky ?
2007-01-07 00:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Catalyst 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋