What if a guy refuses to do oral can he be coaxed or do I find a not so shy guy?
2007-01-06 16:27:53 · 22 answers · asked by brandi_schuler 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Shower together first - - - start with a nice, clean body. Then get some strawberries and whip cream . . . . . and use your imagination. If that doesn't do the trick, then you'll have to accept the fact that he isn't open to the idea at all.
2007-01-06 16:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by TPhi 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
From a strictly male perspective here I would not waste too much time with a non-oral partner. I mean after all if you aren't spending at least some portion of thought on pleasing your partner how much good will you be in any aspect of the relationship? I suppose you could work out some behavioral modification tricks....you know...snack and some petting...try following up a job done well with "What a good boy". Or perhaps you could arrange for a shock collar, Lil negative reinforcement might do the trick.*chuckling*. Think you have a partner with some issues in all seriousness, if he considers that act "dirty" or taboo it is probably only the tip of the iceberg as far as his no doubt long list of problems. Luck with whatever you choose and Be well.
2007-01-06 16:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rod s 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put some hot chocolate and cream all over your #### and connect it all the way to your mouth.
If he still wont go down, you know how to tease him , dont do any orals or anything for him just tease him , like how lap dancers do, until he cant take it no more and he finally will give up :)
hehehe try it
2- this is the long run version, talk to him. He doesnt like it because its all in his head. So maybe slowly slowly one step0 at a time he will get used to it, but i have a feeling you have no tolerance and would dump him like most of us do.
good luck :)
2007-01-06 16:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Hunnypox 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you need to do is to put a banana peel on the floor. When he slips, make sure his face lands on your crotch. Problem solved!
If he doesn't want to do it, he won't do it. There will be no way of coaxing. Of course, trimmed and clean don't hurt, but if he won't even check to see if it's trimmed and clean, dump him. Plenty of guys out there that will go down happily. Like me. But I'm taken, find another.
2007-01-06 16:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have fun with it- bring out some flavored syrups or some whip cream. Make it like something exciting that you 2 are doing together, you do him some and he does you some, that way he is not feeling uncomfortable with it. Some guys just find it really weird to have their head down there- especially when they are younger and have their friend telling them not to. It kind of makes them seem inferior to you, and you know guys- they always have to feel like machos. LOL! But really, if you make it fun and tasty he might look at that differently. Watch some videos- just try it all.
2007-01-06 16:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Christik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is great, maybe he had a bad experience in the past with a smelly, unclean one. Just let him know yours is nice, clean and tasty and he should have a lick. It's better than ice cream.
2007-01-07 12:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
talk over his reason(s) for not wanting to perform the act. i was relucatant at first because i didn't like going through the forest to reach the jewel. remedy---for 34 years my wife has maintained the BALD LOOK. needless to say, oral sex is very much a part of our sex life.
2007-01-07 11:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Candian Girl - find another guy.
That being said, make sure that it's a pleasant situation that you're inviting him into. If that's not the reason he's refusing, and it's important to you, then you have to decide if it's a dealbreaker or not.
2007-01-06 16:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Marty Wrin 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you want oral sex and are with someone who wont do so I would imagin you have other reasons to be with the guy.
2007-01-06 16:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If the guy refuses then dump the dummy. To coax him, simply bribe him with the same. If you give he gives, as it should be.
2007-01-06 16:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋