i used to live n new orleans now i live in dallas and now wen i go there to visit i c that i dont have any female friends. they all dress different and act all high class wen they came from nothing. i dont dress like them and i feel lower and below class around them. im jus having issues with fitting in.
2007-01-06 16:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by p-jump 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
be yourself.
dress how you want to.
you`ll find friends that like you for who you are.
just because you don`t shop at abercrombie&fitch or hollister doesn`t mean you`re crap.
or just because you don`t buy expensive coach purses.
don`t feel lower.
you may be rolling your eyes now.
butttt.
i`m 13 years old and i shop at these stores BUT...
i`ve learned alot.
like how money doesn`t bring true happiness.
they and you will learn that later in life.
just be yourself.
you`ll make friends who will like you for who you are.
2007-01-06 16:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were these your true friends to start with? If they are, then you should be able to talk to them about how you feel and they should be able to tell you if they feel something has changed. If it is a real relationship, some open honest communication should be able to help everyone understand each other. Anyone that likes or loves YOU wouldn't care how you dressed or make you feel like less of a person. Don't let someone else's attitude bring you down or make you feel like you don't deserve to walk beside them. It is much more important that you like yourself and have self respect. If you like and respect yourself, others will see it. If you are doubting yourself or feeling insecure, they will pick up on those feelings as well and can change the way they interact with you. If there are people around you that shake your faith in yourself, find some new people that offer you the friendship you deserve. One that is based on mutual respect, love, caring, support and faith. We are only given a small amount of time on this Earth and it is too precious to waste.
2007-01-07 00:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by jigsawinc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If all these girls are looking at is what you are wearing, then that's not a friend anyway. They're just using the expensive label clothes and the attitude to mask their insecurity. Don't feel down, hold your head up and wear what you have with confidence, people will be attracted to your personality rather than what you are wearing.
2007-01-07 00:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by eggshell134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, me too. I joined this really expensive college in Cali and i came from a different continent, and i've never hated who i am as much i do now. Its like i don't measure up at all. What to do?
2007-01-07 00:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by joy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi it sounds like your stressing yourself out on others opinions its not about where your from or how you dress its about who you are inside be yourslef and sooner or later they will see that your not so bad! hang in there and they will come around :)
2007-01-07 00:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by ms. clean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to be friends with people like that. They're very shallow. Find new friends, REAL ones.
2007-01-07 00:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own INDIVIDUAL. You don't need to "fit in" with anybody. Be yourself and you will find you are truly fitting in with the majority of society. By the way, welcome to Dallas neighbor.
2007-01-07 00:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you,i would remain as what i am.i would not dress like they do or act like something im not.dont feel low or anything degrading.you are what you are and you should be proud of it.
2007-01-07 00:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by aesthetic90210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does int matter what they think what matters is whats on the inside i have the same promblem at church just if i would take my own advise
2007-01-07 00:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋