how come when im with different people i act different?when im with my gangsta friends i act like them.when im with my good friends i act wierd like them,when im with my mom i act all sweet and childish,when theres some nerd i act all tough and mean.when im with a girl i act crazy and shy.people tell me to be my self,but i dont know which one i am.am i mean,shy,crazy,weird,childish? please help.
2007-01-06 15:55:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are obviously still very young trying to figure out who you are. I hope one day you realize that the best kind of person to be is a kind, giving, loving, passionate, and sweet human being who cares about his family and friends and other people. It's OK to be shy, a little crazy, a little weird, and childish sometimes. But you demean yourself by being mean to impress other people. A good thing to ask yourself is "How would I feel if someone did or said that to me?" There is nothing honorable about being cruel.
2007-01-06 16:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the ways you are acting are not acceptable. It sounds like you are following the crowd and blending in with whomever is around. This is fine if you have nice friends, but if you are being influenced to act badly, then you could end up in real trouble, as well as ruining your relationship. You need to decide what kind of person you want to be, then be that person. I don't think that the advice 'be yourself' applies to your situation. What that means is, if you like playing the violin then you should do it even if none of your friends appreciates that. It does not mean to act any way you feel like acting.
2007-01-07 00:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is called peer pressure. how do you feel when you are alone is the real you. if you are shy when alone then the real you is actually shy, if rough then rough. do you see what i am getting at. do your own soul search and find out which one you like the best. the shy, wierd, rough, crazy, or childish one. that will be the real you and then the heck with what the others think. be yourself.
2007-01-07 00:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by sandydeedum1tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u act when ur alone??? ur prolly not all those things u act. u just need to figure out the real u. hang out with all the ppl u have said at the same time if u can adn see how u act. maybe that will help
2007-01-07 00:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Charlee w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's nothing too crazy...everyone has different roles in different situation...study has shown that the more roles u have, the more readily you can adapt to new situation...if you really think u dont know who you are...just think about what u do/act when you are alone...
2007-01-06 23:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by cheeryviola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not really "found yourself" yet. You are still trying to fit in with every group. You are not all those things - you have to decide who YOU want to be and then be that person, for all time.
2007-01-06 23:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your insecure about your real personality and are afraid to show your true colors so you act different around others so they could accept you.
2007-01-07 00:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by brown579 s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u know who u are stop trying to fit in and u will find the real u
2007-01-07 00:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by cutegirl794613 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid to be yourself dont be just come out of your shell and be who you want to be b/c if noone likes you for who you are then noone really likes you now do they just let go and have some fun
2007-01-07 00:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by spiritwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mybe u like Phony e-mail me at clovessasha@yahoo.com please
2007-01-06 23:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋