I'm a very shy girl and I normally don't make out with random people. I met this guy on a Euro trip in a train and he gave me his number but I never called him back.
We bumped into each other at this pub crawl few days later and I had a lot of guys running after me but I only waned to spend my time with this guy. He was also surrounded by a lot of girls and couple times we got close to making out but it just didn't happen.
It's been 7 months now since the trip and we email each other every once in a while. I finally got the guts to ask him why didn't he took the chance of making out with me when he had it and he said I was too slow in doing and not to worry about things. It may just happen if we bumped into each other again....And that was it !!
Is it okay being slow in doing things? Does innocent girls bother guys? Is it possible that nothing might happen with me and this guy cuz I'm too shy? I like him a lot and will be in his homeland for a year due to work. Wat shud i do?
2007-01-06 15:49:23 · 7 answers · asked by Crazy 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Yes I think it's perfectly fine to go slow because if a guy really likes you then he should respect you and not push you into anything. If a guy tries to get into your pants right away without trying to get to know you then it's a good sign that is all he wants from you. There is nothing wrong with innocence. I like that in girls that I am truly interested in. So stay sweet and if that guy really cares for you then he will understand and respect you. If something is going to happen between you it should be when you are ready. If it doesn't work out don't be too discouraged because there are decent guys out there.
2007-01-06 16:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Innocence can be very sexy. The only guys that aren't willing to move at your speed are the players that only want to get in your pants and then forget you .... and that's no loss. Sounds like that is the case with the guy you mentioned ... only thing that will come out of that is heartache and hurt for you. Let him go and move on.
2007-01-06 23:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Informed1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't slow, it is called morals, and it is there for a reason. No there is nothing wrong with being 'slow', and a lot of advantages to it, not the least of which is when you find the one it is going to be special not cheap.
-Dio
2007-01-06 23:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by diogenese19348 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, I'm kinda slow to. Some guyts get turned off by that, but some hotties really do understand. All my guy friends understand how I feel & they respect me fr that.
2007-01-06 23:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Karyn E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a soap opera///.
2007-01-06 23:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by chazzer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i happen to find innocent "nice" girls to be a big turn on..........
2007-01-06 23:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well....if you ask me if that's who you are then so be it
2007-01-06 23:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by NZ*CUTe*Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋