I have a question about guys who check out other women. Today I was in the store and this guy who was with his girlfriend was checking me out. She was like talking to him face-to-face and he was doing it. Why the hell would you do that. Do other women find it rude when you are checked out by a guy with their girl. I always feel embarassed for the girl. Guys are you that lame that you would do that?
2007-01-06 15:41:17 · 29 answers · asked by fifimsp1 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
i fell horrible when other guys look at me when they are with thier girlfriend. i just make sure that my boyfriend doesnt do that.
2007-01-06 15:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by armena101 p 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its a fact of life. All blokes will do it, but it does not mean they're going to run off with another girl (some do, the weak arseholes) or that they think the other girl is better than their girlfriend. Guys are hard wired to want to sleep with as many women as they can, its part of their DNA. Its the weak selfish ones that actually pursue other women behind their wives/girlfriend's backs.
I notice some women giving me the eye when they're with their boyfriends/husbands. Its not a matter of being lame its being human.
If the guy is disrespectful in other ways and openly flirts with other girls around their girlfriend, thats a different story. Then you really should feel embarassed for the girlfriend. Those types of guys are pricks and don't deserve a girlfriend and should probably forget about having any type of long term relationship.
The trick here girls is to STOP THROWING YOURSELF AT EGO MANIACS WHO THINK THEY'RE GODS GIFT TO WOMEN. They're just dickheads and nothing good will come of hooking up with them (maybe some ******** kids). You just become their property and they will screw around on you eventually.
2007-01-06 16:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you it's rude if you are with a girlfriend, but who's to say that girl he was with was his girlfriend and not just a female friend. In the case that the girl was his mate it's not really a big deal. It shouldn't be a problem to look as long as there is no touching. Just remember there is always someone out there who looks better than the one before.
2007-01-06 17:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dustin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a guy does it without realizing it. It is difficult to ignore beautiful art. If a guy checks out a girl and realizes he is doing so in front of his girl, THAT is very disrespectful.
2007-01-06 18:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by elysian fields 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is some messed up stuff right there. Its all about respect. If a guy respects his girlfriend enough, he's not gunna sit there lusting over some other girls body while u watch. That's being a straight up pig. Whoever gets this kind of treatment should get rid of their man. No girl deserves that.
2007-01-06 15:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by joy m 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
*shrugs* when I'm with my girlfriend, I keep my attention on my girlfriend. I might look at another woman, that's part of being human, but I wouldn't stand there and check them out, that's rude. I was always taught that guys who do that are self-centered and don't care about their date's feelings. I guess I was just raised different.
2007-01-06 15:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Deek 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, all men check out on pretty and sexy women. A man check a woman out because he finds "attraction" in her. It is a way of complimenting to her indirectly. You do not need to be embarrassed as it means he found you pretty for him on that day.
If a man is single he is complimenting you indirectly (Wow you look great. You are one of the prettiest ladies I have ever met)
If a man is attached he is complimenting you and signalling to his darling indiretly (Wow you look greater than my darling. Darling, you need to be more attractive than her.)
I do check out women everyday as it is my way of complimenting them indirectly. I just want to make them feel good and proud of themselves for a day. I hope I have solved your doubts. Thank you!
2007-01-06 19:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women check out the opposite sex. It's human nature, however, I think that is is very disrespectful to do this when you are with your significant other......
And yes, they are that lame!!
2007-01-06 16:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by thongbandit32 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two types of men women are with. Men who are of high quality that they desperately want to be with and men they are with because, well, quite frankly, the average woman can't stand the though of not being with someone.
The average chump a woman has as a placeholder in her life, she doesn't think much about and gets highly offended if she witnesses him doing anything that implies she isn't the master and he isn't her dog.
But, the other type of guy is rare and extremely valuable. His status goes up, not down, when does stuff like that. And he can and will have sex with any other woman he wants, whenever he wants and if she doesn't like it, well, there is the door. Rather than being a negative thing, this really, really, REALLY makes the woman like the guy a million times more.
You can easily tell the two types of men apart too. The first type of man looks at you surreptitiously. The other type of man will look at you openly and could not care less what you are his girlfriend thinks about it.
To be blunt. If you don't like it, that is just too bad.
2007-01-06 15:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
Guys will always check the menu but they simply can't order as long as they're "attached" (either married or in a relationship). As long as they're not dead, you can count on it. The same goes for girls checking out other guys !!!
2007-01-06 15:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Bill P 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think it has anything to do with being lame.
Just the opposite, I think checking out other women is a sign of good health, virility and vitality.
A mans role in nature is to SPREAD the seed......
A womans role is to nurture it.
I think that women who have insecurity issues are the real problem.
There is no harm in window shopping, and if they were just boyfriend and girlfriend I don't see the big deal.
You should have been flattered.
2007-01-06 15:45:52 · answer #11 · answered by aural_exstacy 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋