My boyfriend absolutely hates "oral" and won't let me. I have started to worry that he's not a normal guy. Is he cheating? Is he gay? or has some type of thing happened to him that has turned him off to it.
2007-01-06 15:31:17 · 16 answers · asked by boinga28 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Maybe I can help
I am not an oral guy
I like seeing my partners face.....not the lower parts during lovemaking
hand stimulation is kewl...playing roles kewl.....BUT
sorry were all not oral.....ask him the reasons he dislikes it....their might a previous partner that turned him off or a bad episode
2007-01-06 16:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't worry about it too much. As a matter of fact, I don't particularly like it when women give me "oral" either, but I love giving it to them; the only way I really allow it is in the 69 position. I wouldn't say he's gay what-so-ever, but just try to understand what he does need and give him that, when you can... some people are just that way.
2007-01-06 23:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by bloodline_down 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not everyone likes oral, and that is okay. Not liking oral does not determine one's sexual orientation, so there is nothing to be worried about. He is normal, he is not cheating, and he is not gay. However, if you still have questions about it, you should just talk with your boyfriend.
2007-01-06 23:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are simply not very good at oral sex and he doesn't enjoy the way you do it. Perhaps, it bothers him to have you do that and then kiss you...sort of afraid of his own penis.
He's not gay.....gay guys love oral.
2007-01-07 00:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's had a bad experience with oral before. You know, like maybe he was raped or something by somebody he trusted. Try talking about it with him and maybe he'll lighten up.
2007-01-06 23:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by r5f 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The beauty of humanity is that we are capable of making choices about what we like & dis-like. I don' t think there is anything wrong with him disliking oral . . .it's just a preference.
2007-01-06 23:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by NautyRN 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmm - that's an odd one. I don't think it's anything to worry about though. Perhaps his past experiences with it have all been bad and has caused him to be turned off by it.
2007-01-06 23:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say it is normal, but no reason to think he is gay or cheating. Sexual desires are so particular, it is nothing really abnormal.
2007-01-06 23:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by freshlybakedj 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nothing to worry about at all, personal preference, some do some dont , some take more time to get into it as relation ship goes farther. consider your self lucky i guess. LOL...
good luck
2007-01-06 23:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by c.c. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
look at it this way, maybe you got lucky and hes not the typical jerk, maybe he cares where your relationship goes and is afraid that sex will just complicate things, if this is the case then i would consider it a blessing, theres not many of us out there
2007-01-06 23:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by tony c 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋