Here's the deal. We are happily married. We have a good, active sex life. My wife recently confided in me that she would like to experience another woman. I don't have a problem with it, per se. I AM conerned, of course, about STDs, but there are ways to deal with that. And have to be discreet, as we have young kids. I would be there, but would not actively participate (Both our ideas). We would rent a hotel, and probably meet in the bar and have a few drinks to calm BOTH our nerves. My basic qustion is, how do we go about finding a willing participant? Escort? A website? She would settle to be 'teased' with a stripper at first, but even finding a stripper to come to a hotel for a party of less than 10 has proven to be impossible! Another thing is is that my wife wants a really cute girl, twenty-something to thirty-something(She just turned forty herself), with a nice stripper-type body. We have already nixed the idea of a friend. Any suggestions?
2007-01-06 15:21:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe look for a lesbian bar in your area and look for a bi? If not, go with an escort/stripper (if either arewilling to go that far. I don't know too many strippers personally, so I just can't say. :P lol).
2007-01-06 15:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and hubby have been ther and done that start out by going to a bar and getting to know a girl that might be interested in it (may take some time) but its all worth it in the end
2007-01-06 15:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a night club and get her to have a couple drinks and start flirting. If she finds someone get her to ask her if she minds if her husband watches. Easy as that. HAVE FUN!!!!!
2007-01-06 15:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by beaner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a nice, upscale gentleman's club. You'll find someone. You go alone first, then bring the wife to surprise her. (Bring lots of CASH)
2007-01-06 15:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Thers websites tha tyou can join just fo rthis but please be careful this can wreck a marriage although you may not feel it now,i have seen it happen
2007-01-06 15:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetser, IN
2007-01-06 15:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try craigslist.com...they have a LOT of classified listings like that.
2007-01-06 15:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her fantasy, let her handle it. She can either invite you or NOT.
2007-01-06 15:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://www.adultfriendfinder.com
2007-01-06 15:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋