ok people my friend she is 17 nearly 18 and she about two months preg but she wont take a test,iv brought her one but she wont do it and i no she two months because normally when she on her jim jams lol she normaly lies in bed all day can cant move and she really is in a mad mood but since november none of that had happened and my friend well i no her becuase she my best m8 and we hav been friends for years so i do no her but am thinkin she wont tak a test because she was brought up in a home and no one wanted her wel impart from me cuz when i got my own place last year she was 16 she moved in with me but anyway she started smokin naw i keep telin her its wrong and she dont care and she just goes on about her mum she does nt even no her mum i hav nt got a clue what to do cuz she hurting a little baby and its like she would rather not know what am i sopose 2 do i dont no who the father will be and she does nt either it was a one night stand
2007-01-06 15:07:38 · 4 answers · asked by keeley f 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
am starting to think am the horrible one i should of let her in a care then she wont be like this should i have left her there or hav i dont right
2007-01-06 15:08:38 · update #1
well i reckon you have done right takeing her out of the care home, she probley just wants some time alone at the moment she will come round she probley thinking to her self like why did my mum get rid of me and why could nt she look after me just tell her that what eva happens you will be there and help her along with things and i think you hav done great up to yet she only young really she not really had a life so dont bleam your self
2007-01-06 15:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is nothing you can do for her right now. You have to wait for her to come to you. She will eventually come around. Denial can be strong. She is probally scared out of her mind. As for her smoking as much as you hate seeing it the more you nag her the more she will resint you and she might leave. The last thing you want is for her to leave and not know what is going on. Just watch from a distance and keep a good eye on her.
2007-01-06 23:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by diana h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really needs to take the test to see if she is preggo! If she is preggo then she needs to get to a doctor right away. Its not good to try to hide your pregnancy. If she didnt want to have a baby then i think that she shouldnt be having sex. Thats called immaturity! At least use protection! So if i were you i would tell someone right away to get her help!!
2007-01-06 23:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by connie45331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's old enough to know what is best for her, well you just go on being a great friend that you have been to her over the years.
2007-01-06 23:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋