he is 49 years old, but he is too fit for his age.
2007-01-06 15:02:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
p.s. to MR. marklemoore ---- u would just drool over me!~!
2007-01-06 15:09:37 · update #1
funny u should "initiate it" but u r prbly rite
2007-01-06 15:11:51 · update #2
or maybe I just want more??
2007-01-06 15:22:27 · update #3
No, just because he doesn't want to have sex with you doesn't mean he wants it with someone else. I'd concern myself more with what there is about you that makes it so that he doesn't want sex with you.
Edit: You're wrong about your comment. Looks aren't the most important thing to me and never have been. I'd rather be with someone considered to be average looking or even a bit frumpy if they had other things going for them, than I would with someone considered a great beauty physically but was a loser or a b*tch otherwise. It's the total person that matters. And believe it or not, but sex is more about what occurs in your brain, your frame of mind, than it is about physical attraction alone.
That's why I suggest something about you might have changed. Or that he views you differently. And if you think sex is just about the physical, then that there is probably the problem.
2007-01-06 15:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from my experience with life my first guess is yes he is getting it elsewhere. If you notice a sudden change there is a reason. maybe work, family of maybe even a health issue. I think talking to him about it, not out rite asking if he is going else where. just bring up the fact your missing something and is it something your doing. Don't let it bother you and push you to beleive things, just ask and get it in the open in a constructive mannor. If the topic angers him then I'm putting money on your worries are rite.
2007-01-06 15:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husband is only 40 me 33, i run 4 miles a day and am in pretty good shape, sleep naked, and does he touch me???no, i go period to period and know im not pregnant. i dont get it. unless he's the cheating type, i'd just say he's an aging man. not old by no means, but just tired and busy. my husband would never cheat, i can barely get a conversation out of him at times, so i know he could never strike up a conversation with anyone. thats just how he has always been. i blame the age and job and just darned tired. plus if theres kids around, that plays a huge role, we have 3 young ones and are just too busy. sad at times, but us women must annitiate it, or do without. good luck
2007-01-06 15:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by CATHRYN K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes you should be worried. The reasons could be anything from infedelity to sexual disfunction to unhappiness. You should find out what the problem is.
2007-01-06 15:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, he may just be going through some changes physically where his desire is not as strong. Try talking to him about it openly without accusing him of anything.
2007-01-06 15:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worrry
2007-01-06 15:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by letmesurpriseu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sound like my husband and he only 31. Most probably a male thing.
2007-01-06 15:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by mrsrhowell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily, he might just be taking a break. Depends on the guy. Ask him.
2007-01-06 15:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you should ALWAYS be worried that he is getting it elsewhere and act accordingly. Keep him happy at home and he'll be too tired to go anywhere else!
by the way... age doesn't have anything to do with it
2007-01-06 15:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
how about dr. ashley would he drool to see you naked
2007-01-06 15:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋