I am15 and i have been to sleepovers at friends houses, both the kind where you do and the kind where yu do not sleep, but only at other guy friends' houses. I will be sleeping over at a girl friend's house next weekend and there will probably just be 2 other girl there, we are all best friends. My questions are really about what is appropriate and what I should do since it's mainly a girls sleepover. I'm asuming that it'l just be watching movies and stuff, but what about sleeping (if we do), It would be inapropriate to sleep topless (as I usually do) wouldnt it? Should I just sleep in the cloths I wear that day? And what about sleeping in the same bed as a girl friend? There are only 2 beds, but 4 people. Sould I slee on the floor?
Thanks for any advice.
2007-01-06 14:50:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sleep in a tshirt or something. Nakedness at those parties is wrong. I would bring a sleeping bag...
2007-01-06 15:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would make the situation kind of fun if you got some crazy pajamas. Like a silly shirt and some pajama pants ( think target) and ya sleep on the floor or have all three sleep in the one bed and you get the other. The mom or dad may already have a situation all set up for that if they know and are allowing you to sleep over. Or if you are really nervous just say you have to go by a certain time cuz your mom wants you home (even if she doesnt) but it will help make lighter of the situation. Good Luck.
2007-01-06 22:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some pajamas or house clothes, and sleep in them.Your friends would be disturbed if they found you topless sleeping in the same bed with them.Unless they do it too...(which is disturbing to a person my age, but don't mind that) go ahead.But if they don't, or even if they do, imagine if a relative living in the house walked in on you.You could never have a sleep over at that house again.Most likely.
As for where to sleep, bring a sleeping bag.Or sleep on the couch.I avoid sleeping in the same bed with my friends when I can, but that's just me.
Have fun.
2007-01-06 22:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it amazes me that the parents are allowing a boy to spend the night at a girls house. friend, just friends or not, i dont think you should spend the night. maybe im just uptight, but i remember those days and friendly cuddling sometimes turns into other things. if you do though, wear at least an undershirt and sleep pants and sleep on the floor. and what about your parents???their okay with that too???? my gosh, im not that old fashioned.
2007-01-06 23:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by CATHRYN K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is relax and don't act like its bothering you. i say you should sleep with your shirt off and in a bed because if ya'll are good enough friends so they would invite you over i mean then why are you so stressed out about it? and don't sleep on the floor unless someone else is....it will make you look anti-social and nerdy.
2007-01-06 22:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you are a boy, and that's the issue.
Just go there and see how it goes. You can sleep with no top only if they do too.
Arrange the bed division with the girls, see what they think about it.
2007-01-06 22:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by sandwich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...bring a pillow and sleeping bad, curl up on the floor (use an air mattress if you have one), wear pj's (top and bottoms) and have fun! Don't worry so much!
2007-01-06 23:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by evieluvsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should probably wear a shirt and definintley sleep on the floor cuz if u didnt it would just be wrong.
2007-01-06 22:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by jsus_kristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep on the floor;; in a sleeping bag
2007-01-06 22:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by '--angiepangie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋