2007-01-06 14:27:06 · 17 answers · asked by gekkoish 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you love your girlfriend more than this other girl then you need to do something to stop feeling for her. Avoid seeing her. Look at all the negative things about her to stop feeling for her. It's important that you don't betray your girlfriend.
2007-01-06 14:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision. One or the other. But be aware that the phrase "the grass is greener" is very apt.
Although you might have an amazing physical attraction to the other girl, you have already put 12 months of affort into your girlfriend. Presumably therefore she is a nice girl with whom you can foresee spending a long time together with. So is it really worth risking that for what might eventually turn out to be a dissatisfying evening of lust?
Or, even worse, you could make a play for the friend, and be shot down. And then the friend will tell your girlfriend, and you'll be screwed either way.
2007-01-06 22:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by stagemanagerman2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats not good at all!! you should either keep out of her best mates way so you dont get any ideas or tell your missus because if anything would happen between you and this mate she will find out as best friends kiss and tell. at least with you telling your missus, it might upset her but at least she will know and could change things such as leaving you two together so nothing would go on.
Why not go to a hotel for weekend with your missus and enjoy the hotel together and experiment with different things and possitions- you might feel a lot more attracted to her and not her mate
2007-01-10 08:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is more important than sex and trust is essential to love. Tell your gf that her friend is hot but not as hot as her - or end the relationship. It is very hard to have your cake and eat it too.
As Oscar Wilde remarked, "There is only one thing worse than not getting what you want - and that is getting what you want".
2007-01-07 03:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by mimi_vogue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A shorter version of what others have said:
Decide to drop your current girlfriend and try her best friend. or...
Control your urges and stay with the one you love now, and have been with for a year.
--Charles, That Cheeky Lad
2007-01-07 02:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop acting like a wild animal and learn how to control yourself,just because you chose to live this life style doesn't mean you have to go out with every female that you see...get real
2007-01-06 22:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by purpleaura1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself and pull the schlong off yourself every so often to keep it under control. Simple really.
2007-01-06 22:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure her friend likes you 1st, then if so and u think you would be happier with your gf's friend then go for it
2007-01-06 22:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it as a fantasy in your head if you love your girlfriend
2007-01-06 22:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by tra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made you ask this question in the Lesbian Gay and Transgendered section ?
2007-01-09 12:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by sha2000_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋