Im think im attracted to women and the only man i look at and im interested in is my boyfriend. Ive found that i have thoughts about women but i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and theres no way i would break up with him just to simply explore my sexuality. So what do i do? Im so confused...
2007-01-06 14:17:27 · 6 answers · asked by tu_sweet189 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no 3 ways!!.. god lol
2007-01-06 14:22:08 · update #1
no cheating either! omg i think ill just give up on this question lol
2007-01-06 14:24:22 · update #2
The right thing to do is often the most difficult. Tell him. He can make the choice on what to do. It's fair to him.
Do this before you get married. I'm sure that he doesn't want to spend a part of his life with you thinking that he is exclusively intimate with you, only to find out that you are going to lean towards being lesbian or bisexual. I am a bisexual. It's really a hard road to go with. You are in a sense telling anyone you are with that you are not committed to them.
That's my answer, I hope that it isn't going to ruin your day.
2007-01-06 14:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you can either hide your feelings for women and spend the rest of your life pretending to be straight or explore your sexuality. It is possible for it to not be cheating to have your boyfriend and the occasional girl on the side. Do some reading on polygamy and figure out if it's for you if you really want to.
2007-01-06 22:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would be okay if you was to explore with other women.
2007-01-06 22:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him to have a three way and see which one you like the best.
2007-01-06 22:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try with a woman without breaking up with him
2007-01-06 22:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by whoknows 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about this....he needs to know..and you need to talk
2007-01-07 00:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋