how do i know if my husband has someonelse?

Answer 1

When he starts behaving in an inconsistant way.

Answer 2

There are alot of signs to determine if your man has someone else. Here are some tips you may want to really think about:
1-Does your man touch in a affection way?
2-Does he go home right after work?
3-Does he go out late?
4-Do you argue about unnecessary things?
5-Does he find excuses to leave the house or call you?
6-Do you feel distance away from him even though he is home with you?
7-Does he make love to you or do you feel as though he is having sex but do not feel he is into you?

I can go on and on! You know your husband as well as any other person will answer on your questions. Go for your instincts. Most of the time it will be right.
The most important things in a marriage is communication. Talk amongs yourself without any friction. It may be uncomfortable for him but at least you know you are really trying to keep your marriage.
One other note: Does he think you are cheating? Most of the time a man will blame the spouse of doing something becuase they are doing it too.

Take care and good luck. I hope all is well for you.

Answer 3

Wow, this is tough. My first husband cheated on me 17yrs ago and I ignored all the signs because I thought that this would never happen to me. But it does, and it sucks. Let's see if he is gone a lot that would be a big sign. If I were you I would check phone records, because trust me if he has someone else they will be talking on the phone. I would play detective by checking for notes in his pocket or hidden in one of his drawers, I would check his cell phone withou him knowing it as of now, even check his vehicle or work vehicle and I would go as far as to follow him in a different vehicle or have someone else too. This may sound crazy, but either you want to know or you don't. Good Luck! Louise

Answer 4

When he starts being quite secretive, starts working later than normal, also another telling sign is if you are getting a lot of phone calls that are hang ups if you answer. ( and if he is being secretive with his communications, phone, texting, emails etc.)

Not to sound to negative, but if you are having doubts about him being faithful then your intuition is probably telling you something. Check the credit card statements....you can do this on line also get detailed listings of calls being made from his phone (cell) those are just starters, see what you turn up, then take it to the next level if need be (following him or hiring a private detective)

Answer 5

If he has a cell phone you know nothing about...he may be cheating.
If he is "at work" a lot, but you can never reach him...he may be cheating.
If he is affectionate when he has been shy, or quick to pick a fight and leave "to cool off" for hours...he may be cheating.
If he doesn't want you to see his email account, or his text messages...he may be cheating.
If he is on the phone with someone, and hangs up quickly when you come in...he may be cheating.
I can only hope you never go through that. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 6

I can tell you from experience, these are red flags, especially if they are all combined.....
Working late all the time, he buys new clothes, takes more showers, doesnt let you see his cell phone, puts passwords on everything (emails, banking, IM), has a longer beauty regime than you, spends long periods of time in the bathroom (this is when they have time to text message), gets meaner or really nicer to you, doesnt have time for you, cant look you in the eye, gets PISSED and defensive if you ask him about his whereabouts, isnt interested in sex anymore.....
Good Luck!

Answer 7

There should be no secret between husband and wife. If he changes his normal habit such as coming home late, working late, smell of perfume, when you ask him if he is cheating on you and he looks away and get upset, if he does not have sex with you, if he have sex with you and it's a job. He is cheating on you.

Answer 8

You will know very easy if his habits have change at all,and all of a sudden.So many ways and if u think he is well guess what my dear he is cheating on you most probably.So just come out and ask then say you know about it.

Answer 9

Give him a nob job before he leaves in the morning and another when he comes home at night . If you smell or taste someone else then he does . if not then you have given him no reason to find someone else .

Answer 10

well firs t you've really gotta make sure if he really has someone else before doing anything, or maybe just ask him but u might not want to do that cause probably he'll say no. Maybe just follow him around for a bit but not to much.