We want to be together, but her ex has lost her mind. The woman I want to be with has tried dating other women since they officially split up and stopped living together well over a year ago. The ex continues to stalk my girl to the point where I can't even go to her house with us fearing that something will happen to my vehicle while it's at her house. This woman has threatened to show up at my girl's work and tell them about her lifestyle etc... and although there is a restraining order on the woman, that will not prevent her from doing such a thing, it will only ensure an arrest after the fact. By then, the damage is done, and it would possibly get my girl fired, depending on how the very religeous owners of the company think about hearing that kind of news from a violent woman. The ex will even screw around with the friends and other dates my girl had before me. Any ideas how to difuse this so me and the love of my life can be together?
2007-01-06 13:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by Brooks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All I can really say is be careful!!! this woman is psychotic. I speak from a similar situation yet mine was more extreme and dangerous. Log incidents that happen and always call the police so that a history is compiled in case she does something really horrific you can show that it was an escalation. Maybe this is a sign that it's better for your friend to live in her truth than to be confined in fear. The rest of the world is just going to have to get over it.
2007-01-06 14:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by dankew50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order, "no contact" order, etc from the police. If the girl friend won't do this forget her. this can be very dangerous and some dopey people like all the attention and want it to be confusion and jealousy.
2007-01-06 14:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Why? Why?
Drama attracts drama. negative attracts more negative.
Love of your life or not this is a no win situation if your only thinking of doing what you've been doing. Either be willing to lose the job and stand up to this wack job, or just move quietly, get new jobs, start a new life and be happy.
You will never be happy with all of this negative energy. Get as far away from it as you can.
2007-01-06 14:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jackson Tucker and CO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im getting tired of hearing about people that should be wired as this is my toast i wish the best for your gohst and with that said some times you may be missled but what i really mean is some should be pronounced dead so the both of you can sleep and dream in your bed.so i say off with her head.
2007-01-06 14:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a girl that means u know but anyways that sukks
2007-01-06 13:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a man or a mouse?
2007-01-06 13:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋