before my sister was married when she was ingaged she had the best time with her fiancay than after they got married he changed like crazy he was so diffrent and didnt talk to my sister he just ignored her and never took her out to a movie or nothing she just stays home and my sisters mother inlaw is so mean and sooo JEALOUS of my sister she doesnt want my sister to feel like shes married to her son.she screams at my sister.my sister gets disrespected by her husbans mother.my sister trys to tell her husnband how painful she feels she just cleans the house like shes a made for the family of her husband.i tell my sister so many times divorce that ************ before its too late to find another husband to have a great life with.but she keeps telling me and my mother and sisters that she loves him to much even if he doesnt treat her as a wife.my mom keeps telling her to not be scared and stop being shy and talk to them.but shes just too shy and scared to her husband what should my sis do?
2007-01-06 13:51:32 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your sister gets treated like crap because it sounds like she lives with her in-laws. Her husband is jealous because he knows she can find better or is probably cheating on her and is afraid to get slapped with his own medicine. Look its plain and simple your sister probably doesn't have any kids with this man. So, the best thing she can do for herself is to leave this guy. But since your sister is there and he knows she is never going to leave because she "loves" him, he's basically going to treat her like sh*t. You sister is basically making her own bed, by letting her husband and everybody else like her in- laws take advantage of her. She needs to make a statement by leaving this guy...make him suffer and work for her love. Just because their married doesn't mean he can just throw the towel. Either your sister leaves this guy or is going to have to learn the hard way.
2007-01-06 15:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can keep giving your sister your opinion about leaving her husband. But until she decides to leave him there's nothing you can do. Beacuse she's the only one that can make the choice and she will have to live wih her choice.
Just keep being there for her. Hopefully she'll see that she's being treated like a maid and being treated unfairly by her in-laws.
Hope she see's the light soon.
2007-01-06 14:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by lana1meyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to stay out of your sister's business. She needs to take control of her life. If she feels she is ok in her relationship, you have to respect that. She will find her words.
You are great, caring sister though! I wish I had a sister!
2007-01-06 13:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by evieluvsu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
None of your business as far as I can see.
2007-01-06 13:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋