My aunt called her babysitter and asked her to babysit and she didn't call and my aunt called me well then the other girl called back and she told me nevermind well I think that was kinda rude but I'm gonna see her tommarow what should I do !
2007-01-06 13:43:34 · 22 answers · asked by ilovekaseykahneforever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think your aunt should have stuck with you and told the babysitter that she had already gotten her niece to babysit. At least your aunt could have given you the option to babysit or opt-out after her "regular" finally returned the call.
Be polite and respectful, but tell your aunt tomorrow that she hurt your feelings when she was so quick to call you in a "pinch" and yet even quicker to dump you when her "number one" preference got back to her. You thought that you were helping her out in a jam but now feel like she doesn't trust you.
2007-01-06 13:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt has every right to ask who ever she wants to babysit. It was a little inconsiderate to ask you and then cancel in favor of the other girl but that is her right. If you feel you can say it calmly when you meet up with her just let her know that your feelings were a little hurt by her going with the the other girl after asking you first. Offer to sit for her another time ONLY IF YOU REALLY WISH TO BABYSIT FOR HER!!!! If you couldn't care less then just let the whole topic drop as it was probably only your pride that was hurt.
2007-01-06 21:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not really offended, your aunt takes you for granted. Tell her when she called you to babysit, you had plans and you changed it to accommodate her. She would get the message, she should apologize to you.
2007-01-06 21:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your aunt and tell you were hurt by this. Let her know your are interested and available to babysit.
2007-01-06 21:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by wildone_racing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you think that was kind of rude, and you were a little offended. Maybe she'll appoligise and things can carry on with no hard feelings. If she is just indifferent to it, then tell her to piss off, and don't hang out with her any more.
2007-01-06 21:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by JENNIFER M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your aunt might not know she offended you first of all and she's not going to know until u tell her -- maybe she thought u really didn't want to babysit -- i would tell her how i feel to insure it doesn't happen again
2007-01-06 21:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Big Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. She is your aunt after all! There is no reason for you to feel offended!
2007-01-06 21:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by evieluvsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just smile at them and pretend that I am not offended. You never want people to know that they have that "power" over you, unless it is someone close that you need to work issues out with.
2007-01-06 21:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Christine5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it tell them to go F them selves because i don't put up with that kinda stuff and i don't care how strong of popular they are and no it's not telling them they have "that power over you" it's saying don't mess with me I'm not going for it it's telling them they dint have power over you and then they cry and com plane and try to get back and they get more angry because they cant do any thing a bought it
2007-01-06 21:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by cthulhu will raise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she hurt your feelings hun. That wasnt very nice... she needs to know. Next time she askes tell her no and why.
2007-01-06 21:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by kensjo63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋