there is a girl who i go to school with and she absouletly hates me, i have never said anything mean or rude to her. i have tried being nice and tried complimenting her and she ignored it and didnt say thank you. recentely i got so fed up that i excluded her from a class activity and she got upset. a little later she began talking trash about me to my friends behind my back for the millionith time. i got pissed and really got fiesty, for the first time, i was upfront about the fact that i didnt like her either. it felt good to be upfront about that and stop acting nice towards her. im overall a very nice person and the majority of people in my school like me, so i dont know why she doesnt. i want to give her as bad of an attitude as she gives me, but i dont want to be a complete ***** about it. first i was thinking i could post this very embarassing picture of her but then i realized some of my friends would hate me for being that bitchy. im going to hurt her with words but i need help
2007-01-06 13:42:58 · 8 answers · asked by ms be 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the thing is we're both equally as good looking, or so i've heard. it's just im a nice person and get along with everyone. and shes a rude cheerleader who people use. so its not a looks thing. i want to ignore it but its hard when i see her whispering to MY friends about me behind my back. i dont want to be a ***** but i dont want to seem like i have no pride and just let her talk trash about me. but i also dont want to lose my reputation as a really nice person who cares about everyone.
2007-01-06 14:01:41 · update #1
should i confront her about what her reason is for not liking me?
2007-01-06 14:02:22 · update #2
Do nothing! You have nothing to gain and much to loose by being rude. Always be kind and thoughtful.
2007-01-06 13:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by ruthie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would first talk with your friends. Why are they listening to her.? Other than your friends why do you care. Let it go ! I think you had it right in the first place,be kind !Do not let her see that what she is doing fazes you. Life is short.
2007-01-14 13:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tary L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but do it privately face to face without anyone else around.Maybe it will be something petty that can be resolved.Trying to be mean or revengeful will eat at your soul. Remember karma, what goes around comes around.
2007-01-14 01:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by mother of Bridezilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. You have more important things to do with your life than hurt her. It isn't worth it.
2007-01-06 21:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by ariomd12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls dont like other girls that are better looking than they are. Dont stoop to her level
2007-01-06 21:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff gordon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you ask this same question a week or two ago???
2007-01-14 17:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend to fight wit her! She might take it as a joke!!
2007-01-13 14:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Lilian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to help but i have the same problem!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 14:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋