ok 2 years ago my ex's uncle cuts the throat of a 4 year old then the throat of her mother (24) then raped her.my ex's mother owns the trailor and now her other uncle lives there. My ex is telling me she is moving in there to save money so she can pay off her legal bills she encured trying to keep my boy away from me for the first 6 months of our breakup . Ok anyway my point being i dont want my son living in a place with that kind of karma - not to mention the fact of living with the other uncle , the whole thing creeps me out . we have already did the court thing and i am pretty sure she can move anywhere she wants to within the county we live in so i dont think a lawyer would be able to help much -but your opinion is what i seek , i thank you in advance.
2007-01-06 13:37:46 · 10 answers · asked by iambk4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You all sound like trash. The Murder Trailer will be perfect for you.
2007-01-06 13:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeech...what a situation...You may want to calmly sit down and talk to your ex-girlfriend about other living arrangements. Even though you are not together, you are still parents together, and you need to express your concerns in a clear, calm manner. Many times, when breakups are bad--or the aftermath is nasty--we are very defensive about talking to the ex. It is especially nasty when children are sometimes involved; so you may want to make arrangements to help financially until she is on her feet (that does not mean being a bank; put a timeline and everything in writing). If that doesn't work, express your reservations to your lawyer who handles the child support and child's welfare. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-06 13:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want her to live there, help her pay her expenses so she doesn't have to. People make way too much out of things like that. I know a woman who cleaned out the car her daughter was viciously murdered in and drove it. Things like that don't bother some people. It does me, but not others. Just talk to her and she what kind of compromise you can come up with. But, if she needs to live there, let her do it. She doesn't answer to you any more.
2007-01-06 14:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not out of line, and your ex is messed up in the head for wanting to bring her child to the scene of a vicious murder.
2007-01-06 13:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for not wanting you child to live there. Offer to help your wife pay off the legal bills if she will sign a paper saying she will never live there with your child. She shouldn't want to live there.
2007-01-06 13:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be scared of the whole family if they are all that vicious, one of them might go nuts again. This mean you don't have custody are any say so about your child, right. You just have to sit back and take it, Wow, I be scared myself. even of the ex, they are crazy mixed up family. WHEW!!!!
2007-01-06 13:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't let it happen. Thats crazy to do that to a child theres no telling how that uncle is if the other one is that crazy.
2007-01-06 13:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by melanie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is some sick $hit....I wouldn't want my son around her family period. You should try to get custody of him....her family sounds really screwed up.
2007-01-06 13:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's all she can afford (regardless of the reason) why don't you help her find a more suitable place for her and your child?
2007-01-06 13:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't envy you. I would be upset in your situation.
2007-01-06 14:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋