I told my boyfriend I am pregnant and he was happy as if he purposly got me pregnant. Should I be mad? Should I leave? I know he pursposly got me pregnant but lied and said it was an acident.
2007-01-06 13:35:03 · 13 answers · asked by 13 year old girl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
accident not acident
I forgot how to spell purposely purposly HOWEVER YOU SPELL IT.
2007-01-06 13:35:41 · update #1
Yes we used protection but i think he poked a hole in it and I didn't know it.
2007-01-06 13:41:34 · update #2
You are thirteen? You must understand that at any age, having any kind of sex (even PROTECTED) you can get pregnant. The fact that you feel your boyfriend purposely got you pregnant says that you two didn't know each other well enough to know and respect each other's goals. Respect is essential for a happy relationship and for healthy sex. (although I agree with the person who said you should have waited for marriage, you are now past that and have to deal with the fact that you are pregnant.) You made your "bed" so to speak and now you both must lie in it.
Talk to your parents about this, talk to a doctor about this, and talk to HIM, you both need to make some serious decisions and you need to explain to him how you feel because that's important. Find out if he really DID do it on purpose because the truth is, condoms aren't always enough protection.
If you two were mature enough to have sex you need to be mature enough to handle the result.
2007-01-06 13:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's done is done, Little Sister. The only place to go from here is forward. Check your mail...
No doubt, you will hear alot of different things from different ppl. The last thing you need right now is alot of criticism..(you already now you have a bit of a situation.) You are not the first young girl to get pregnant out of wedlock and you won't be the last. Keep your head up and your eyes on God..that is where your help comes from. Let peace rule your home and heart.
God bless you.
2007-01-07 09:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by motherbear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 yrs old!! wow u are really young girl!!! But I think that the last thing you want to do right now is leave the guy if u are really pregnant I don't think you would want to be a single mother at 13!! Anyways you should talk to your parents about this... and u shouldn't even be having unprotected sex in the first place!
2007-01-06 13:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by CR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy??? You want to know if you should be mad at the guy who knocked you up and wants to have the kid and stay with you!!! You shoudl count your blessings. I dont know how old you are, but if you are 13 like your name says then I think you need to talk to a counselor about this whole thing.
I hope everything works out and I hope you stay with him no matter what, as long as he is not physically abusive.
2007-01-06 13:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Holly M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 years old and pregnant?? You should be mad, at yourself. You not only got pregnant, but put yourself at risk for STD and AIDS... You are too young to be having sex and trusting a boy with your future.
Ask your boyfriend how happy he will be financially supporting a child for the next 18 or more years (at approx $5,000-$10,000/year)?
Talk to a planned parenting counsellor, talk to you Mom, you are way too young to be having a baby!
2007-01-06 13:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by lawpmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you only 13? thats not cool if you are, you have so much life ahead of you. If he wanted that he should have told you and talked to you about it, however you should have been clever enough to use protection too. Oh well ,whats done is done. Have you thought about what you are going to do? keep it, or abort or adopt? I probably wouldnt stay with him, he sounds very immature and thoughtless. Good luck with everything.
2007-01-06 13:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if it is true, that is a complete and utter betrayal of your trust. Especially since it's your decision and your body, that he decided to carelessly violate (if he truly is guilty of intentionally getting you pregnant). I think it's best now for you to evaluate what YOU want to do with this baby: adoption, keeping it, or abortion. It's your body, your decision. I think that this is one of the greatest betrayals. But you should also take this time to own up to the decision yourself because you took a choice to have sex at this age, and will now have to deal with the consequences.
2007-01-06 13:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you never know with guys.
first things first tell your parents and see how happy they are about the situation.
as for the bf he may just have always wanted kids and it really was a accident! just be happy that he aint blaming you and that he wants something to do with it!
good luck with mom and dad!
and please dont let them talk you into abortion! if they dont want you to have it give it to the daddy since he wants it!
(btw expecting fathers can fight abortion in court if they want to keep the baby!)
2007-01-06 13:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by naightengale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should leave him. Then again I don't what ya'll been through.
But he didn't take in your consideration of havin' a baby. Maybe he was scared you'd say 'no'.
ALSO IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.
2007-01-06 13:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats just sheer stupidity.
2007-01-06 13:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋