my husband opened a my space account for work(i was with him when he did it) a week after he did this i went into his account to add some pics(my husband did not know i was going to do this).thats when i noticed "sue" a old gf sent my husband a private msg like 2 days after he signed up. it said "i know you well,very well".he then responded with just a hi how are and joking with her.they went back and forth till i called my husband on it only 2 days later.he played it off as no big deal which really nothing bad was said between them.i should have waited and just watched how things played out.what concerns me are a few things how come he did not tell me he was chatting with his ex.how come he deleted his whole account like 5 mins after i told him i saw his mgs.i may be overreacting but this is the same gf that he left his first wife for 8yrs ago.i went to sue's my space page and she is local and single.
2007-01-06 13:28:22 · 7 answers · asked by marykay897678 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends on if u trust him or not
2007-01-06 15:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact Sue and tell her to leave your husband alone plain and simple. Tell her that HE showed you the messages and that you don't think it's appropriate for her to be contacting him. Think of it this way...there is a reason they are not together anymore. As long as your marriage to him is going good you shouldn't have any reason to be worried he will cheat with her. But I've found from experience that when you openly confront a whore that is trying to hook up with your husband and let her know that you will not stand for it....and will kick her butt if she keeps it up...they will back off. lol Better yet, you should have him contact her and tell her that he's happily married and would rather not talk to her. She will probably take the hint better if it's coming from him. Hopefully him leaving his wife for her isn't a pattern that is soon to repeat itself. You need to end this before it goes any farther. Myspace accounts, chatting, etc. always lead married couples to trouble. I would avoid it and have him do the same. There is alot of temptation out there and alot of women who don't care if a man is married or not.
2007-01-06 21:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband also left me for a girl off of myspace they were old friends from high school and I found out by hacking into his myspace maybe that makes me i don't know a stalker but it did end our relationship since he came home to see her on leave. Anyways i told her about me and she stopped talking to her but he has already started talking to some other girl and is inguadged again. But I have realized once a cheater always a cheater. I would watch his myspace cause if he erased it that fast he probably put one right back up right after. But I don't know him so I can't say for sure. Sorry to hear of that though but she does sound like a home wrecker.
2007-01-06 21:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by melanie c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should respect that you two are married instead of emailing him a "I know you well, very well" comment. And for him not tell you sounds a bit strange. If my ex contacted me I'd tell my husband. Just to make sure my husband is comfortable with it (out of respect of course).
You need to tell him, one on one what your concern is. It is respect and communication. Women like to manipulate men(Hey I'm a women and I know how some women are despite the fact that you are married), as we are built differently then men, mind and body, so he must understand what her obvious intentions are.
After all you are married right? You have every right to protect your family and home from potential intruders/home wreckers, there's nothing wrong with that.
Happy New Years!
2007-01-07 00:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is nothing, he deleted it, u were right to have confronted him right away, before it could turn into anything more. he did delete it, plus he knows u are right on the money, and u won't put up with any of this. u let him know it was wrong, u confronted it right away, and stopped it dead in its tracks.
2007-01-06 21:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at least he deleted it. She seems like a wh*re.
2007-01-06 21:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he shold have made it private - or not accepted i hope she is no longer on his myspace
2007-01-06 21:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋