my friend and her boyfriend want my husband and myself to go to a strip club with them--,but what do i do there? do i look- or not --what do people do there?
2007-01-06 13:26:02 · 22 answers · asked by gabby 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are the kind of wife whom doesn't mind her hubby going to a strip club. Than go with him.I mean if its not against your principals. Their is nothing wrong with it.They are just woman just like you and I.You have already seen what they look like naked if you have ever seen yourself nude.Nothing says you have to go near them its not like you friend is suggesting you let on of them give you a lap dance or anything. Is it? Relax and let yourself have fun.And don't worry about weather you are supposed to look or not.If you aren't willing to look than you shouldn't go or you will be staring at the floor all night.If you are worried that someone will think you are into woman because you looked at one dancing than that is their hang up not yours.So go have fun have a few drinks and try to be your husbands friend not his wife for one night.I promise you won't die of embarrassment or anything if someone you know sees you coming out of the club.
2007-01-06 15:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband are both 100% comfortable going, and neither of you have any kind of doubts then it would be a good time...there, and maybe at home afterwards. Have a couple drinks and relax. Neither of you can be the jealous or paranoid type, and as long as he (or you) start going alone all the time then I'm sure there's no harm. You just really need to have an honest conversation about the night out and what you expect and won't tolerate...
And to answer you're last question, what do you think people do there ? They drink and gawk at the naked women. Some indulge in other activities but those are usually behind closed doors. Good Luck.
2007-01-06 13:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are okay with the whole naked lady concept,then go. Have a drink,tip a dancer,make it a fun occasion. I took my husband to a strip club,because he had never been,he felt it was neat that he could go with his wife and have fun. Granted I commented on the outfits,but still we enjoyed doing something out of the ordinary for us.
2007-01-06 13:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure you look you can't help it. LOL. GO you'll probably have a great time...People do in strip clubs what people do in most clubs...they drink, listen to the music and enjoy themselves.
2007-01-06 13:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would any sane minded woman be okay with her husband going to a strip club, let alone GO WITH HIM. If you are uncomfortable, don't go just to make your friend happy.
2007-01-06 13:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by TP woman 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, by all means go and enjoy. The sight of naked female flesh erotically presented is a turn-on for all who view.
I predict if everyone is being honest, the night will end with a lot of mutual happy endings.
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2007-01-06 13:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Don D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats a stip club
2007-01-06 13:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff gordon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allowing your husband to live that kind of lifestyle and condoning it by going with him...will enivitably lead to other things...such as him cheating...or wanting to do a threesome..etc. Don't go with him is my advice and tell him not to go as well. Find some decent friends whose idea of a good time isn't going to strip clubs. yuck. Do you really want to sit there while your husband is eyeballing naked women and thinking about screwing them? that would make me sick and lose respect for my husband.
2007-01-06 13:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hey if u r a healthy normal human u have an appreciation for good looking people whether male or female it does not make u a lesbian or anything like that in the end u will both have fun.
you are going home with him and its oodles of conversation for the bed
2007-01-06 13:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by matt_jackson39 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
drink and have a good time...strip clubs are a great place to hang out
2007-01-06 13:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋