My ex will not stop sending me emails and all I wanted was a friendship, the only thing is that he has more feelings than I do and I cant stand it!
2007-01-06 13:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by renew69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do not have to open the emails. You could also gently say, thank you for your feelings, but you need to move on to someone that will also feel that way, because I do not. How long has he been holding on after you let go ? It is often harder for one person or the other to let go when they love another person. Friends email you. If you want to be friends, tell him that is it , friendship only, no intimacy, no intimate contact, no intimate talks or emails. Platonic friendship is all you want, and if he continues, refuse to open his emails and you may have to accept that he does not know how to change his feelings into friendly ones. Sometimes people need a lot of time before they can be friends with someone whom they have hurt over, sometimes they cannot ever be just friends, and if thats the case, time will tell you that. Be gentle, as long as he is not harming you. If he starts abusing you, take it to the law.
2007-01-06 13:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by fivefootnuttinhuny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind but firm, and let the ex know, "I know we were an item once, but that is now over. You and I need to move on, and I wish you well." Then block calls, emails, etc. If it continues, get a restraining order and make sure it is enforced. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-06 21:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop reading the emails and delete them off the computer. You can also have your email address changed.
2007-01-06 21:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a final emai that says "I don't think it's good we communicate anymore as I'd like to move on" and then block him.
2007-01-06 21:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop communicating
2007-01-06 21:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain clearly your intentions of being friends if she continues to
act the same cut her off.
2007-01-06 21:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by viva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know but if u find out let me know
2007-01-06 23:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex his sister.
2007-01-06 21:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off--
2007-01-06 21:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋