I am married have always been faithful 9 years but this guy at work is driving me crazy! I want to do the right thing but I feel like I just cant shake this! He's older and married but he taunts me daily and I really do love it but then there is reality. Someone help me get my head out of the gutter. I feel like a YOYO on a string he brings me up and drops me back down but I just cant shake it. Nothing Physical has happened but the tension gets so strong at times I feel like just grabbing him in a very passionate way will this pass?
2007-01-06 13:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by kd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please don't ruin your marriage... I am talking from experience been there done that I wish I listened to someone wiser!!!
You will never feel the same again if you encourage a relationship with your coworker! Believe me if you sleep with him you will never be that crazy about him and it will cause a lot of problems at work and home!!! Stay away from him@ at least youre happy now. hope you listen!
2007-01-06 13:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt your husband like that and don't hurt the other guy's wife and family like that either. Can you imagine how hard it wold be on your husband and his wife if they find out? How devastated they would be? You could ruin so many lives by giving in to this pervert. he probably cheats on his wife all the time if he's acting that way with you.
Adultery is a very very painful thing that most marriages can't survive. Unless you are prepared to deal with a divorce and losing your husband and possiblly everything that you have...don't do it. Don't give up a secure 9 year marriage for 15-20 minutes of good sex. Try spicing up your sex life with your husband instead and tell the guy at work to back off. Don't let lust cloud your good judgement....avoid this guy and tell him that you are married. The mistake of having sex with him could cause you a lifetime of guilt and heartache. Which would you rather grow old with...The perverted sex feign at your office or your husband? Buy some kama sutra books and sexy lingerie, go home... and seduce your husband. Sounds like your marriage is just lacking romance, good sex and spontaneity...that's not hard to fix if you both put forth the effort.
2007-01-06 21:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my you truly need help..First and foremost you are keeping your perspectives in place.If this man is married never forget the word "MARRIED" you have to realize that if you want respect you must give it tell him that first of all.And secondly let him know hey I ain't No Joke for you to be playing games with."Only You Can Prevent Forest Fires" and that don't necessarily mean the forest(trees)it means lay low and put him in check.It's a friendly relationship and if he wants you as a friend treat you as such.Nobody can do anything but you.If it continues and it gets so bad ask to be moved to another part of the building or somewhere where you can't see him and he can't harass you.STOP IT NOW before it gets any worse.You will be the one loosing out if you get involved with a married man.Oh yea and don't let him run this bull down to you.MY WIFE DOSEN'T UNDERSTAND ME .CRAP
2007-01-06 21:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down is kinda the first step. if u feel that bad about him then u should be worried!!!! just move on like nothing had happen, replace him in ur mind and all memories, find another person, u know there are totally much more out there, u just need to spread ur wings and find them, good luck!!!!
2007-01-06 21:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by heartbrokenandconfuse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about going out with your husband, like a gettaway. The devil is trying to fool you, don't destroy yours and his marriage for passion because I can assure it is NOT love, not worth it.
2007-01-06 21:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Miss k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go home and flirt with your husband
text your man and flirt
***if you play with fire you're gonna get burned
2007-01-06 21:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋