how do i know when my marriage is over?

Answer 1

when one of you dies. you try till then...

unless one of you beats the other... or cheats... those are the only ways out.... in this lifetime... in my opinion....

you give & work until the problems are solved. everyone else just gives up too soon.

Answer 2

No one's going to like me for this but... When's the last time you've made love to this man? For two people two become and remain one and fit together and run smoothly (forgive the example, but like a car engine, with a million different part, each supporting the other) is a very difficult undertaking. God created the idea and institute of marriage, and created sex for marriage for a reason! It binds you together in unity. Making love is not just entertainment or something you might feel like doing. It's a powerful weapon against everything in this world that would tear your marriage in two very jagged pieces. Don't wait till everything's perfect between you two. Make it happen, and it will help things become perfect. Again.

Answer 3

Trust me you will know when you have reached that point! If you don't love each other anymore and you've just been going through the motions it is over. I believe that everyone knows when they've had enough, you can only live so long not being happy.

You will know and you will make the decision to leave when you are ready you can't let others make the decision for you and don't let anyone rush you.

Answer 4

If he verbally or physically abuses you or cheats. Or vice versa. Other than that you should work it out. People give up on marriage too easily. I swear, in hard times they just seem to bail instead of sticking it out. Marriage is hard work. You have to put time and effort into it. Its not always going to be peaches and cream. In the cases of abuse though that is an instant deal breaker. Get out ASAP because it won't get better. In cases of cheating that is endangering your health because your spouse could possibly contract a disease and transmit it to you.

Answer 5

When the very thought of him disgusts you. When the two of you wake up regretting to see that person. When the two of you or one think of ways of exiting this marriage without hurting others or tarnising reputation amongst your community.

Those are usual indicators. The obvious when you do not feel love even at the lowest level of love.

Answer 6

When you are no longer happy and miserable all the time. Constant fighting about nothing. Cheating on spouse. Being ignored. The spouse stays out more and more, later and later each day whether at work, play, bar, etc,anywhere but home.
I would think you would know...When did you realise you were married?

Answer 7

WHEN YOU BOTH JUST GIVE UP . IF YOU TRIED EVERYTHING AND NOTHING WORKS AND YOU KNOW YOU FINALLY HIT THE BREAKING POINT. ALL COUPLES ARGUE . YOU JUST HAVE TO BE WILLING TO WORK THROUGH YOUR PROBLEMS. BUT TO ASK SOMETHING LIKE THAT YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT EACH OTHER AND ASK WHAT MADE YOU 2 FELL IN LOVE AND WHAT DO YOU WHAT FROM EACH OTHER AND TAKE IT FROM THERE.

Answer 8

1. when your husband/or wife is not breathing and the room starts to smell funny

2. when your dog becomes a better cuddler than your mate

3. when you start looking at strangers and wondering what color underwear they have on and how long it it would take to get them nekkid

4. when you are sitting on a beach in jamaica under the sunshine and your mate is sitting in the room playing solitare

Answer 9

When you are living separate lives under one roof like room mates

Answer 10

no more sex and seem more separated not like before it really depends on you. you should make out at least every other weak that keeps a relation strong