How do I tell my friend?

Question

How do I tell my friend that I'm sick of her bullcrap? She's always making up lies. But my other friend and I think she's just doing it to crave attention. First she says she's pregnant then she just says it's muscle. But now she's making up lies about one of the teachers at our school. And it's not nice either. I don't want to get into a fight with her.....just tell her her lies aren't getting her anywhere. I think she's getting in way over her head and my other friend thinks she painting herself in to a corner. But the worst part is...she's not just lieing to us but to her dad. Her dad doesn't know that she sneaks out and gets drunk. She's only 14 and doing a bunch of crap. So what should I do? Tell her or just leave it to her to make a fool out of herself and get caught in a lie?

Answer 1

Honestly it doesn't sound like you should be friends with her anymore. Unless you're really willing to stick it out and hang in there with her and her "crap", the only other thing would be to back away to avoid getting yourself in trouble. I would suggest that you just pray for her and let God deal with her. I really hope whatever you do works out! I i know how it feels to lose a friend
Love,
SurferGrl

Answer 2

Tell her how you don't think she should be lying so much and how you and your friends don't like hearing her lies.
I wouldn't get involved with sneaking out and getting drunk part-that's a family issue and unless you are related to her or something, then it's not your place to tell her Dad. Especially if you don't know him. Some adults will believe what their kids say-even if the kid isn't telling the truth.

If she doesn't listen to what you have to say, just walk away. She's at that age where she's going to be tempted to try out new things (even if they seem pretty bad) and try to do stuff to look good enough. What she doesn't realize is that some of the stuff you do in your teens, will make you pay for it still later on in your life when you're an adult. Just don't listen to her lies and ignore them unless what she is saying can harm others or something of the like. Let her see the consequences of lying and making a fool out of herself.

Answer 3

I would tell her dad first off that she is sneaking out and getting drunk, that is dangerous because she is probably drinking in car which puts her at a higher risk of getting into a alcohol related accident. tell her that her action are forcing you to make the decision of being her friend or not. she is the only one that can change the way she is, sorry to say its all up to her.

Answer 4

I know how you feel. My friend was sneaking out and meeting guys and getting high and stuff for a long time but i let nature take it's course. Of course she got caught and now she's slowed down alot and isn't out doing things she shouldn't be doing. That's what i would do if i were you, but whatever you do don't rat her out because she'll never forgive you.

Answer 5

u dhould tell her dad first then leave it up to a parent to solve the problem just don't get mixed in with the lies cause then u could get blamed on something that she did. and ur right about her wanting attention.

Answer 6

i would probably talk to her very nicely about it.....like ask her why she's making stuff up like that and stuff.....if that doesn't work i'd probably tell her dad about her sneaking out and getting drunk and stuff. and if that doesn't work.....she's on her own!

Answer 7

same here my step sisters were doing that. they were told to stop and they didn't. they move 1,000 mi away to there real dads and now cant come back. better get em strait before there sent off south to the border