me and my fiends terri n leon have been having 3somes 4 a while now and im gettin fed up of it im only 14 and iv been pregnet 2wice and i just want to be with leon but both leon and terri want me and i want to start a family with leon and terris a lesbien n shes a nice gal but only 14 where leon is 17 and he is fit as.... so i dont no what to do im pregnet agen with another boys baby named ash but it was a 1 night stand and it really hurt shud i keep the baby and what am i going 2 tel leon im only 14 but i love my exciting life
2007-01-06 12:47:34 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What is up with you? I can't believe what I am reading. You serious? First you should sit back and read what you wrote and see how ridiculous you sound. THEN you should see a doctor and make sure you don't have STDs and be check to see if you are pregnant. If you are you make sure the baby is safe and healthy. Then you should seek some counseling. You are only 14? Where are your parents? Someone needs to take responsibility for you and be a parent to you. You are not old enough to be a parent. Of course you are old enough to get pregnant but your little paragraph shows how immature and young you are. Go to you mom, auntie, grandma, or someone that can help you. STOP what you are doing and let someone take care of you instead of letting these people take advantage of you. These people aren't your friends and this is not an exciting life, it is a disgusting and filthy way for a young woman to act and shows you don't respect yourself. For your own health, and the welfare of self preservation stop what you are doing, seek professional help, and clean up your act young lady.
2007-01-06 13:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by bel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a wind up and Im open minded... Like a by numbers one.
At fouteen its best to be no further then 2nd base and practicing it, 15 fist half up to3rd base and leaving home runs till around 16 upwards... 3 somes and the like somewhat later as for one the feelings involved.
Before you do anything sex wise you should go and get advice from a family planning clinic not least to deal with current pregnancy and once aborted... (you clearly aint ready to have a kid) get put on a contraceptive injection or implants as you dont appear to be responsible enough to handle the pill or condoms , but to use condoms as well as the implants etc for stds and back up.
Would say no nookie for a year and a half but being more realisitic would go for the contraceptive and you need a serious talk on safe sex and how to avoid pregnancy , did you not learn from the first time.
Yes if this is for real its all shiney and new, but it can seriously f your life up hence recomendations of waiting or in your case toning it down till around 16 +.
www.childline.co.uk
www.ruthinking.org.uk
www.brook.org.uk
Thia may also be of use
www.lifeline.org.uk
www.talktofrank.com
www.drugscope.org.uk
2007-01-08 03:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if this is serouis i feel sorry for u u should tell leon u don't want the 3somes anymore u just want him u should use protection and u should not keep the baby cause at 14 u can't handle one and u need to give up ur crazy life unless u want to die at a young age from AIDs. hope that helps.
2007-01-06 15:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what is wrong with you? Your 14 you should be having sex at all yet. Expecaily not with a 17 year old...and you think this is fine? youve been pregnant 2 times already, dont you learn your lesson? Im usualy very nice about these things and understanding so when i say stuff like this you know your kinda messed up. Your something that starts with an S and ends with an LUT!!!!
2007-01-07 14:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Falling Leaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are far too young to have a baby. Get rid of the threesomes and find somebody who will love you for who you are. Forget Leon, he doesn't really want you at all, he's just playing games and wrecking your head. You have yet to meet a man who can really show you what love is and when you do, trust me, you won't want to share.
2007-01-06 12:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As if your being serious, you can't be!!!! Your proper Jeremy Kyle Sh*t if you are, starting a family your'e barely out of nappies, and up the duff that many times hahahahaha as ifffffff, and as if this Leon would want to start a family with you, his a 17 year old guy he wants his freedom not to raise kids with an infant, and you've been having one night stands!!!!!!! Oh my jesus mary and joseph your'e really bad!!
2007-01-06 12:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the first think would be to speak to a close adult!then stop wot you are doing as it sounds like your not happy with wot your doing, as you are to young to be playing dangers games like this also think about the little life's that don't have a decision try telling the 17year old how you feel and maybe when your 16 you can start again don't live your life trying to be older than you are as there is allot of growing up left for you miss enjoy your child hood
2007-01-07 22:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by pinky xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life is not exciting it is very sad. a 14 year old really shouldn't be having sex at all. I know you think that it is grown up to have threesomes and all the media hype on this doesn't help but you're 14 live your life go to school learn get some qualifications speak to some one you can trust about all this. a teacher your doctor a youth worker please sort this out you are not being fair to yourself. make new friends this isn't who you are!!
2007-01-06 13:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where in the name of God are your parents?
Why are you having a one night stand at fourteen? Have you considered medication?
Honestly, I think you should keep the baby. Absolutely. If you can carry the child to term (which apparently might not be possible, if you've been pregnant twice before), you should keep it.
Because once you have a baby, you're not going to have time to run around and have sex, because you're going to have to take care of your child. Although, on second thought, you don't strike me as responsible enough to take care of yourself, let alone a newborn.
Sprout a brain, will you?
2007-01-06 12:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Paige D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. stop having sex , 2 go to school and do sex education , 3. get a counseller, 4. and a social worker 5 . is your name vicky pollard?
only you an sort your life out and thats only if you really want to looks to me like you are just going to end up draining the welfare system iv also read all your other questions and am doubting your age looks like you need help
2007-01-06 21:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by kelly a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋