okayy so..ive never mad out before and im 18..yeahh i know hella pathetic but anyway im mostly havent because im too nervous or scared to..like i dont know how to do it..likee..i dont know help me by explaining how you do it.
2007-01-06 12:27:53 · 7 answers · asked by BlondieBabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think it is pathetic at all. Everyone is different and that is okay.
Well, usually the guy makes the first move. At least that's how I've always done that. If you look into his eyes, laugh at his jokes and smile at him, he'll see that you like him. Then the guy will touch your hair, hold your hand or something just to test the waters.
If you are sitting next to him and he's holding your hand, you could put your head on his shoulder for a bit. So usually, he'll start by kissing you and often times he'll open his mouth a bit and use his tongue. Not jerky jam the tongue down the throat but gentle stuff. You can pretty much just do what he does and respond to him.
The thing to remember though is that some guys like to go too fast too soon. If you aren't comfortable with something, you have the right to ask him to stop. Obviously that doesn't mean that you be a tease but that you know what you want to do and what you don't.
2007-01-06 12:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want to have sex? It seem that you are not ready your body is a loan so take of it until god send the right person to u.My reason for saying that, a friend of mine had sex at 20 years old and all now she is sorry.Think about aids and other sexual diseases you come to far to give in now.You can date a couple of guys first before thinking about sex.you have to ask yourself is this the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with,It seem as though you are not comfortable
2007-01-06 20:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by lakarez_forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an eye contact and approach slowly.
You don't have to be nervous because most likely, the other person is nervous too.
And unless they push you away, they are expecting it so it's no surprise.
2007-01-06 20:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Andy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask someone you really care for to show you how,threes no special way to do this,just start off small and work your way to the tongue later..the first kiss is always the worse,you will feel like you're doing something wrong..but you will mellow out after its over..
2007-01-06 20:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first one this year and with the right guy, it's MAGICAL!! but ull no if it's the wrong guy...
2007-01-06 20:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow and not too often.
2007-01-06 20:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Phuque E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow ...your flow
2007-01-06 20:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋