wife demands sex every day ?

Question

married 28 yrs sex was great 2 times a wk, had open heart surgey now she want,s it every day ,the pain is unbearable how can i get her to slow down before she kills me help please

Answer 1

Have you spoken to her and let her know how much having sex everyday hurts your physically? Perhaps she does not really know and thinks you too enjoy it. Be honest with her about it maybe she will understand.

Answer 2

I hope you are joking. What kind of wife would demand sex every day after her husband had open heart surgery? She must know this is painful for you. She is either trying to kill you or she is a very selfish person. Have you talked with her about it? I suggest you do and tell her she's had you for 28 yrs and if she wants you for another 28 she needs to at least let you heal. Oh, and talk with your doctor about this.

Answer 3

oh boy oh boy LET"S kill BILL.....

why don't you just stop with over exerted yourself. Try the old 69 routine---or manual stimulation with the use of a battery operated vibrator----You start using those methods you're wife will shut up and leave the exerting to the old Mouth or the Stimulating TOY. Go together a pick out the right toy----Every marrige should have one......69 can be creative too plenty of tastey lotions and potions that are edible including whipped cream right out of a can!!! Just lay back and enjoy tell your wife she's dessert tonight and give her a tongue lashing that she'll never forget!

Answer 4

sit her down and have a talk with her. Why is she so interested in having sex all the time right after your surgery. She may feel like you are going to leave her (die) soon and wants to make sure she gets all she can. What about some oral for her? That may slow her down. Good luck.

Answer 5

have you explained to her about the pain, and how sex is a real strain on you weakened heart? if so and she is still demanding more than you can give, then maybe you should suggest she see a doctor and asking about something to cut her sex drive, or go to a sex shop and buy her a vibarator and play sex games with her an the toy the result should be the same

Answer 6

Explain to her that it is not physically possible for you to meet her new sexual demands but that you love her just the same. But, if she is going through a "peak" time, you may need to help her out a little without actually performing the "act". Sometimes intimacy and sex play can be just as satisfying as the act itself.

Answer 7

talk to her, let her know exactly what you just told us here. Tell her that you know she may be doing this because she thought she almost lost you but she will loose you if she keeps on persisting as your heart is not healthy enough. Make sure you let her know that it is only a health problem and that you are still willuing for sex but just not as often...or at least not as often until your heart gets stronger again. Good luck and stay well! nvb

Answer 8

Well i would say go get some viragra and let her at it. I mean it will keep it up for hours and you woun't have to put much effort in. so angle the tv right and you can both have what you want and then again i have heard about some surgery that you can have. It is like having a pump in your piece and that might do it

Answer 9

shes trying to kill you ,change your will and she will go back to two times a week ,cant she see this is dangerous to you if she loved you she wouldnt want to risk you doing this in fear of losing you ,dont let her have her own way ,,,tell her straight up ,,,,it hurt it will kill me ,,,,,see how she responds to that ,,,you know her better than anyone ,why else would she be doing this ?,its really bad and so sad to think a wife could do this to the man shes ment to love and spent most of her life with ,,,,,,i could never even consider doing anything like this to my husband ,i wouldnt let him id be too afraid id lose him ,this is terribl but you must stop even if shes not happy with you ,,,,or maybe its time to leave her before she kills you ,,,is your life worth it ,,,,do you want to die for her just cos shes your wife ,,,,just tell her no ,,,,and dont do it ,its a big opp my dad had it ,,i saw what he was like ,,,im sorry but your wife needs a good slap ,maybe when shes in pain she wont feel like it either,,,,,but you are risking your life ,for what ,,,,,sex ,,,,no ,,,,its not worth it ,,,,i feel for you i realy do ,,,,kat

Answer 10

My best sugestion is look for things that satisfy her sewxually without hurting you. Try sex toys, (using one on her) or watching her masturbate. She most likley was afraid of loosing you after your surgury and is now overcompesating with sex. I would be willing to bet that she is doing it more for you than for her. Just try tell her cuddle time or the tender moments with each other mean more to you than sex. I hope that I helpped.