help plz i need your helo?

Question

my m8 and her mum n dad are alwayz arguingbut this time theyve gone to far and my m8 i really feel sorry 4 her mum n dad are alwayz shoutin at her because of her brother and shes really peeded of n shes asked 4 me help what shall i do im scared that her mum n dad will split up n blame it on me m8 help :'(

Answer 1

I had to read your question 3 times to make sense out of it...by which time it had lost all meaning....when you're asking a serious question that you want help with Babe, try to keep it as easy to follow as possible....txt talk is fine when txting but not when asking for advice.

Anyway...there's nothing you can do to prevent your friend's parents from splitting up...people don't split up because they argue a lot....they split up because of other issues, which if not dealt with properly, lead to arguing...most of which you won't know anything about.

The only one's that can help your friend's parents are your friend's parents I'm afraid Babe.

All you can do is stand by your friend & be as supportive as possible...don't interfere or take sides, remember that they are still your friend's parents & no matter how angry she gets with them or about them...that's all it is...anger. It's not a go ahead for you to start in with put-down comments of the 2 people that brought your friend into this world. Besides! if things are really so awful...the best thing for all concerned may be for them to go their seperate ways.

You can only sort out your own life Sweetheart, at the end of the day....other people have to sort out theirs.
We all get pisse.d off at times...however if you feel your friend is in any danger or cannot handle the situation & needs further help then you could encourage her to contact
http://www.childline.org.uk
or call 0800 1111.....it's a free UK help line for children or young people to get help etc
Sorry this happening to you & your friend......good luck to you both.

Answer 2

In familys everybody argues...It will not be your fault or your friends fault if her mum and dad do split up...parents split up all the time and when children are involved it does feel like sometimes they are too blame but the simple fact is that they are not....

If your friends parents decide too separate then that is THERE choice both of them will still care about both of there kids just as much they just cannot live together thats all.

The way you can help your friend is simple be a friend if they are upset comfort them listen too them tell them that no-matter what happens you will be there when they need you and stick too it.

ur friend will be okay if the worst happens,'it may not feel like it half the time but eventually things may get better.her parents may even stop argueing with each other then again they might not.

I would suggest though that if you cant help your friend yourself if you have a local youth group in your area tell her too go speak too one of the councellors there or at school about the problems she or he is haveing...

it isnt easy beening it that situation and often parents forget that the effect they may have on there kids ...

i hope your friends situation does get better she will be fine tell too keep her chin up and not let all the arguements get too her or him.

parents argue that just what they do...

Answer 3

Hey..........do not know how old you are but there is no way your friends parents can blame you for the break up unless you had done something really bad to them. Not being funny but you sound young so this is very unlikely. All i can suggest is that you be there for your friend in anyway you can. I had a rough time when my parents split but doesn't everyone???
There is nothing much you can do and if they do blame you then it is there problem......NOT yours!!
Good luck!

Answer 4

I think that you really need to learn how to spell, but in all seriousness just tell them how you feel because the most important to them must be there childen and not pressure on them. Tell your mom and dad to stop fighting, and if they don't then tell them to stop fighting for the sake of your family ad tell them how much it is hurting you to witness this. I hope this answer helps, but i might not know you and this may sound weird but i care about you and other people as well. I said this because i don't like people being sad and i hope this willhelp you and i hope you will live happy. Take good care and tell me how it works out.

Answer 5

How could they blame the split up on you?
You can't really help them; they have problems between them. Your m8 and you have nothing to do with it.

Answer 6

you are too young to be carrying someone elses burdons hun...don't worry about it...they will work it out...all families fight no matter what. if you don't want to be blamed for anything then stay out of it, it's not your problem...if they do split up then i don't think it's your mates fault and they won't blame her, she is stuck in the middle right now and is prolly trying to stop the fighting, geting hersef stuck between them so what you need to do is just be there for her and help her through it, if it gets too out of hand then she can always sleep over and get out of the way...they may already have other reasons to why they fight....but i dont think it has anything to do with your mate

Answer 7

best stay out of the row, reckon your mate prob needs to stay weekend at yours, invent some reason, but be totally honest with YOUR parents. Seek their advice. It does look like divorce may be on horizon for mate's parents, best thing you can do is offer support, friendship, a peaceful place to go to and stay right out of the row, then no-one can blame you for making anything worse.
hope it all works out

Answer 8

There is not alot you can do its not your problem and it will certainly not be any ones fault if the parents split up. just be there for your Friend be a shoulder to lean on , give her support, but there is nothing anyone can do to stop the arguments between the parents

Answer 9

Just continue to be a good friend to this girl but do not get involved too deeply as there is nothing you can do they are her parents and if they split up it will not be because of her it will be because they do not get on.

Answer 10

let the adults handle there problems and you all just ignore the shoutin