most people i know who have sex in high school end up leaving their boyfriends...hmm
2007-01-06 11:42:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't have sex in High School, a teacher might catch you. Seriously its better to wait until after you graduate, but you will probably move on through several boyfriends reguardless. My stepdaughter has found out the hard way about having sex with a boy and getting dumped.
2007-01-06 11:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're not entirely sure if you want to have sex, I'd say wait. You're right, you might regret it later if you don't end up staying with your boyfriend. And what happens if you...get an STD? Or preggo? Won't that make you NOT want to have sex for a long time? That could hurt some relationships in your future. Plus, it's not just the physical stuff you'll have to deal with. Sex is a very emotional thing...and you're only a teenager. I'd say stick it out. You've waited this long, what's a little while longer? Wait until you're in a stable relationship that you know won't break off because of a potential long-distance complication. And if your boyfriend doesn't understand, he's DEFINITELY not worth your time, or losing your virginity to. Best of luck!! ♥
2016-03-28 23:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people in general end up leaving at least a couple of their boyfriends/girlfriends. I don't think it has anything to do with high school sex. Sex is always good if played safe and with respect.
2007-01-06 11:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by harakiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all too early to deal with all emotional issues of breaking up and hurting each other, which will in turn affect your performance in studies. Focus on your studies. You will have a lot of time, later to focus on sex.
There is more lust than love in that age, where the body is producing harmones and conditioning and preparing for itself. It's hard to make good decisions on love during those times.
Even if you can convince yourself it's love, love alone doesn't make life. You don't even have much idea about the career and future of the person and if you're going to like it or not. High school to up until you're in a job , it's a volatile period for all of us.
Even if you decide to just have only sex, sometimes the other person can't control their emotions and it can turn things around. It's tricky to play with love and lust.
2007-01-06 11:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by thewiseone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my school people are having sex left and right. Having sex has nothing to do with age it deals with mostly with how you'll handle it emotionally. If you think you're ready to have sex emotionally then it's good. But you also have to think about if you're ready to have a kid if you end up pregnant and you have to think about how it will feel if you and your boyfriend split up.
2007-01-06 13:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by atlprincess2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in high school and i know people who do have sex but they end up broken herted on the end dont do it!!! Thats all i an say.
2007-01-06 12:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Angeleyes171 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad. Never have sex before your married.
2007-01-06 12:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally it's not I think is bad, cause, a person can lead with disease, and a Young woman can get pregnant. Think twice.
2007-01-07 01:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jo-Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad, i never had sex until i left high school an the reason i did that was because i had to think about my future, wat if i had gotten pregnant in high school then i wudnt b where i am today. its ur choice but plz make the rite one
2007-01-06 12:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by kitty3jm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it wait till marriage it is a gift that you and others should be able to give to your husband and if you waist it on someone who might say they love you then it will be the BIGGEST mistake you will ever make
2007-01-06 11:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by The girl who needs help??!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋