All my friends act like there 16 or 20 when there only 13. You wouldnt belive the stuff they do. Im not like that at all, i havent even kissed a guy. The way i became friends with them is i had this best friend and we hung out in this group of girls, and slowly the other bad girls started driffting into are group and the good girls left. so now its just mostly bad girls and me and my OTHER friend, my old best friend is now doing bad stuff 2. i dont want to hang out with them as much, but its hard to tottaly ditch them. because my OLD best friend was awesome but now i think shes ganna start doing bad stuff 2! This might be a little confusing but read it a few times and give me the best advice you can!!
2007-01-06 11:32:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm so sorry! The first thing to do is, talk to your friend and MAKE SURE that you tell her in whatever way feels comfortable to you that you don't think she should do any of that bad stuff! Second just be one of those good girls that left the group, I know its HARD to just drop them but that's not exactly what I want you to do. A lot of people get into the wrong crowd on accident. Just start hanging out with a different group and just talk to the other girls occasionally. Always remember that just because you don't want to necessarily be friends doesn't mean you have to be enemies!
Hope this helped :))
2007-01-06 11:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥AloHa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do understand.
I think it is about time for you to start drifting out of this group and in with some of the girls that left.
Try to influence your old best friend to come with you. But if she won't, you can't help that. Don't be mean, just spend more time with the girls that are more like you.
This kind of thing will happen all your life. People you are attached to will leave, or you will leave them, and you have to find new people. You will keep in touch when you can, but changes are inevitable.
2007-01-06 19:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first make some good new friends then slowly "drift away" and by drift away i mean ditch your other friends they will become a bad influence on you unless your into that stuff
2007-01-06 19:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by The girl who needs help??!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let anyone force you to do anything you dont feel comfortable doin, at 13 you shouldnt be kissing boys anyway, and you would be better off trying to make other friends that dont make you feel this way
2007-01-06 19:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Shiv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋