should i get an abortion or have the baby.(and this was an accident) I've had a daughter be for and shes turning 2 next moth help me.
jade
2007-01-06 11:30:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i havent told the him yet and it wasn't unprotected the rubber had a hole in it
2007-01-06 11:54:23 · update #1
i have no parent or grand parent that will still talk to me after my first daughter
2007-01-06 18:00:36 · update #2
Jade, honey...this question is way too deep and loaded for any of us to answer. YOU are the only one who can figure this out.
Good luck. I hope you make the right decision.
2007-01-06 11:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not recommend a abortion espically not in this situation, if you can not handle the responability of another child then look into adoption there are lots of families out there that want a baby, I'm sorry something slipped up but if you get an abortion your taking it out on the baby, give him or her up to a family that can take care of it and give love, and next time use 2 forms of birth control.
2007-01-06 19:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by W2D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be willing to murder your two year old? After all it would probably make your life easier. I'm sorry to make this sound so bad, but that baby inside you deserves to live too. It will be hard for you to have another child, but you did put yourself in this situation. Also, you can put the baby up for adoption. There are thousands of wonderful couples just praying to get a baby to adopt. If you don't want your baby give it a good life with loving parents.
2007-01-06 19:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by eber3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I will not tell you to get an abortion because I don't believe that is even an answer. Try having the baby and finding a loving family looking to adopt. There are many people that can't have kids and will adopt yours.
2007-01-06 19:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Texas Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, wahtever you do you can't have an abortion. I define abortion as killing a person, taking away life. You may think that since it is a little child it doesn't matter, but trust me it realy does. And the worst thing is the child gets hurt during abortion. Because it has developed cells and it feels just as grown ups do. So please please take my advice. Do whatever you have to do but don't have an abortion. Besides there are so many options you can take after you give birth to a child. Good Luck.
2007-01-06 19:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Shebba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you get an abortion, it's something you'll have to live with the rest of your life. Sometimes things happen for a reason, even though they seem like a mistake presently. If you are young, talk with your family, don't carry the burden of this by yourself..it may not be as bad as you think!
2007-01-06 19:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by woohoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say have the baby, no matter how unprepared you are in life right now. No child is ever a mistake! You know what it takes to make a baby and obviously didn't protect yourself, so why should a child suffer because of it. That is a life inside you!
2007-01-06 19:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by mom2ghl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to have another child then have an abortion. It is not fair to the child if you are not able to support it. Get an aboriton sooner rather than later if you choose that option otherwise you may not be able to or you will have to do a 2 day painful procedure if you wait too long. Good luck!
P.S. Don't believe the idiots that say you are murdering a child if you have an abortion.
2007-01-06 19:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Amby 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sorry i can not see you getting a abortion just becuase it was a accident. If you really don't want the child give it to someone who will love it! Don't kill it. Stop having unprotected sex if you don't want children
2007-01-06 19:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by crazziegrl14 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no don't get a abortion just when you have the baby give it up for adoption its alot of people that want babies and can't have them and they would love to raise a baby
2007-01-06 19:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋