and im fed up because shes expecting me to get rid of my bike, one of my cars, my porn collection and my 2 girlfriends. to top it all of shes became pregnant as she stopped taking the pill, help!
2007-01-06 11:22:37 · 38 answers · asked by what why where when 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My dear man this has gone to far you will have to let her know who's the boss.
I my self was in a smiler position with a x wife , i decided enough was enough and told her that she had to buck up her ideas, and if she didn't like me having a affair with her sister and mother she could sling her hook.
When i came out of hospital the ***** had ran of with the butler
2007-01-06 11:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, it seems that you stepped in the water without thinking about it much. This is what you do: Ignore her requests to get rid of your bike and cars. They are your toys and is she doesn't like it, TOUGH! You are entitled to your stuff just as she is entitled to hers.
The porn has to go. Indulging is porn is cheating, plain and simple; your two girlfriends, too. You can have women whom you know in the world, but you may not hang out with them because you are now a married man. What about the pregnancy? That's what happens when you marry. I believe that her having a baby right away is plain wrong since it seems that she did not discuss it with you. This tells me that she is controlling and wants to wear the pants in the home--BAD NEWS. Children are the responsibility of two parents and not the
indulgence of one. I hope that your finances are plenty, because it also seems that she just wants to stay home and be a mommy (this is another word for "gold digger"). If she ain't making the dough she has to ask for permission to impact your finances in any way.
Dude, I believe that you are with some irresponsible chic who thinks that she has trapped you by a quick marriage and a child. If you believe that I am correct, you need to dump her like a bad habit and divorce her at once. I would also stop having sex with her since that is how she means to flex her poosy muscle.
Marriage can be a good thing, but only with a woman who respects you, gives you your space, and SPECIALLY contributes to the home with MONEY and mutual cooperation.
Next time, get to know her for at least a year and don't date anyone who doesn't make decent money.
Mr. M on "thoughtless wife."
2007-01-06 11:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think the Bike and car should stay.
Hide the porn , Get rid of the 2 girl friends (if there sexual ) (keep them quite if there just friends)
If you love your wife stay with her. There's going to be alot of changes coming at you in a short time. Hang in there it will all work out and you will come out of time a better and stronger man then you knew you ever could be.
Good Luck to you.
2007-01-06 11:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced my husband because of his porn habit. She is quite within her rights to do the same!!!
She compromised when she married you. You should compromise with her her. Give and take.
And the pregnancy thing. It takes two to make a baby. Start acting responsible. And for god sake ditch the girlfriend (I don't think you have a girlfriend. I think you just made that up)
2007-01-06 11:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by pinkladxy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DItch the gf, compromise over your cars, bike and porn.
YOu are married already for Gods sake..do you love her or not???
What will you feel if you fnd out that SHE HAS 2 HOT BF AND SHE REFUSE TO GIVE IT UP FOR YOU?
Think before you say or do something
2007-01-06 12:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM OK just incase you forgot YOUR MARRIED!!! talk about keeping the bike cuase every man needs and hobbie but EVERYTHING else get rid of and the 2 gf is called cheating and she cant talk the pill cuzz she having a baby hint hint
2007-01-06 11:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by The girl who needs help??!! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol i hope you're joking. married men don't need porn or girlfriends but the bike and car is cool. you better straighten up before she runs you over with that car or rides of into the sunset with her arms wrapped around some sexy biker dude...on your bike!!! lol
2007-01-06 11:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm you've just got married and you have two girlfriend's, what the ****. I suppose in this day and age nothing surprises me anymore. What ever happened to morales and loyalty. Your obviously in a sticky situation but i can only laugh and say you brought it on yourself.
2007-01-06 11:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditch the porn and girlfriends, compromise on the bike and car. start savin money for the baby now, and next time, make sure u use protection.
2007-01-06 11:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by love-life 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What each of you keep and/or get rid of should have been discussed BEFORE the maritual
vows came along. a WIFE = NO!! girlfriends!!!
2007-01-06 11:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Connie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋