My friend and I recently shared an awkward moment. She is the one who introduced me to my present girlfriend. I was hanging out at her house last week, and I kinda saw her naked, in her room. We were so freaked, that none of us moved , untill I got the strength to get out of her room.She was just from the shower, so I pretty much saw everything! I told this to my boys, and they tell me I should take my chances and sleep with her. We've been friends for soo long, but since this happened, none of us has said a word to the other. Help me out here someone, girls mostly, cuz guys will tell me to sleep with her.
plus, I kinda like her, I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't wanna sleep with her.She doesn't have a guy, and she's so so hot. I'm so confused. it's not like she wanted it to happen .Help here girls!!!
i have a girl yes, but I would loose her in a second just to go out with her. one of those friends you wish were your girlfriend, help here!! I KNOW THIS IS NOT FOR THIS SECTION !!!
2007-01-06 10:51:16 · 13 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
I'm asking coz she means so much to me as a friend
2007-01-06 11:12:02 · update #1
okay so u say u like her but u have a g/f. what every u do don't sleep with her. cause u said everything was weird after u saw her naked. she will freak,or u will. i said that u should talk to her about what had happened then after that{ like days} tell her how u feel about her. she may feel the same way.
2007-01-06 11:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by honey.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you two should just remain friends. I say this because if the two of you feel embarrassed because you saw her naked then if the two of you were to have sex then the two of you would really be avoiding one another. However I am speaking from experience because my current boyfriend once was my only and best friend. We had plenty of awkward moments but we laughed it of and kept it moving. He was my first and last. We broke up once and remained friends and now we have a baby on the way. So much luck!
2007-01-06 11:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by miss_peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love at first sight. I do believe in attraction and lust at first sight, but not love. Love is built on a foundation of friendship, and that takes time to build.
2016-05-23 00:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! tough one. Be a dogg or a good boyfriend? Don't pursue this girl only to knock boots with her. Only if you really want to be with her because you may find that the price tag is too high. Your present girl shouldn't be hurt because of this, but you said it yourself...you'd loose her in a second just to go out with her! Perhaps you need to upgrade your dating standards, like if a girl isn't 9 on a scale of 1-10 that you wont date her seriously, but just go out and have fun. That way no one gets 'thrown away' and you get to keep your good reputation. (it counts)
2007-01-06 12:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to your friend tell her exactly how you feel about her and see what she has to say. if she would like to be with you in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship then go for it. but if she doesnt feel the same then it would be better to just remain friends. dont just sleep with her without some kind of commitment that will only confuse her and hurt your girlfriend.
2007-01-06 11:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by chrfou18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one of you are going to have to be adult and bring the subject up. Talk about it and how you felt about and once you've had that discussion done and over with -- put it behind you and move on. And if during your conversation you both determine that something is there -- discover it -- talk it and see where it goes.
Good luck
2007-01-06 11:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by cajun7_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like lust to me. Just think what you are going to do to your best friend's and girlfriend's friendship. Just because you saw her naked doesn't mean she wants you to sleep with her! I'd leave well enough alone.
2007-01-06 11:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kodee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you can be attracted to a person of hand but not love. love takes time to mature. you have been friends for soo long are you willing to risk your friendship for sex. sometimes you gain sex but lose a good friend when the relationship ends that happened to me. i was friends and then we took it to the next level even got married. now the relationship ended and i lost a very good friend. talk to her and see how she feels about you before you leave your current gf.
2007-01-06 11:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by mz.alayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like your friend (not just as in sleeping with like, REALLY like her) then tell her, if she likes you then fine, but break up with your other gf first cuz it isn't fair for either girl if you cheat on her! and it is more likely to work out over all if you tell the truth!
2007-01-06 11:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say, talk to her without your girlfriend knowing.be strong and make the first move. talk to her and then, when you guys are actually talking and stuff, dump your other girlfriend. i know awkward... the other day i answered the phone and my sisters bf said 'i love you' and i was like... "this is veda..." and he was like... "uhhh. that was awkward...lets pretend this never happened. wheres your sister?"
2007-01-06 11:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋