What would you do?
2007-01-06 10:47:58 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You keep true to YOU! Confidence is something you build. Do not let others attitudes bring you down on yourself...
My mom used to tell me... no one can treat you like garbage if you don't let them.
I am still trying to find my way out of people treating me like crap at times.. but usually I would hold it in their face... respect is earned NOT demanded... they do not deserve yours unless its given to you by them.
Hang in there and keep your confidence! They have nothing to do with if you can or cannot do something! YOU do :)
Best of Luck
2007-01-14 07:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by thebe_gl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi joshrocks!!
NO, do not act like ..... , because you are NOT!!! You need to build up your self esteem, and pay more attention to yourself!!!
The more attention you pay to others the more others are going to pick on you!!!
Find the way to project yourself, with a lot of confidence, in other words, act like you own the place!!! Make yourself available
approachable and popular yourself.
Have interesting varieties of topics to talk about, and walk with determination, looking at people on their eyes.
At gatherings, don't stand on the same place, just mingle about, striking conversations as you mingle.
Make yourself useful, needed!!! So people will actually ask for advise or help. Then learn when to say NO.
Keep yourself well groomed, and smelling great. Get involve in some sports, or go to the gym.
Remember, "Nobody is better than nobody". Avoid being by yourself, and try to stay in the company of positive people.
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
ALLIV Z
2007-01-13 23:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, it happens to everyone. SOmetimes the world just decides to treat you like crap but you have to remember and focus on all of the good things about you and block out the negativity. Look at all of the good thisngs you have going for you and focus on them. THink about your friends, would they hang out with you wif they didnt think you were a great person? Just remember that you are a great person and soon enough the world will remember that too. Hang in there because times will get better. --Hope you feel better soon!
2007-01-06 10:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are people saying/doing to make you feel like crap? Take it from me, everyday when I think I've gained a shred of confidence, I am knocked down by simple words. I finally realized that the people who have nothing going on in their lives envy me, or are hurting and then I remember, hey! I am beautiful or handsome in your case, and I am intelligent, and a wonderful person so people are trying to pick at your interior. You have to stay focus and say to yourself every morning and night, that they want what you have, and speak with authority to these people, man!
2007-01-06 10:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend they don't exist and be yourself. They are only treating you like crap because they lack confidence themselves. When people lack confidence, they are always looking for something negative about others. It's that old "gotta' feel like I'm better than somebody else" syndrome. Ignore it.
2007-01-13 08:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one I have learned that people will talk and call you names and everything else but it's not what they call you it's what you answer to. please believe God made no mistakes when he made you and that is the only person you should feel the need to turn to for confidence. Part yourself from those who try to keep you down no matter who they are and attract the people who like you for you by just being you. Some people you just have to let go believe me you don't NEED them so why want to be around them. What good has come of them?
2007-01-06 10:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by mitodo_amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Don't get down on yourself! I barely know you, and I think that your a great guy! The people that treat you like crap aren't worth your time. There are definately better people in the world, ones more deserving of your time and attention. Find them, and don't lose touch.
Cheer up Josh!
((hugs))
2007-01-06 10:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat them like crap.
Or learn to just adapt to it. When you can, become successful and above the people, and then rub it in their faces.
I can't wait to do that to a lot of people I know.
Confidence is a something totally up to an individual. If you wan't to be confident, then be confident. Get snobby. Be sarcastic a lot. Confuse people. It's a great ego boost. I do it all the time.
2007-01-06 10:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by xmegzvengeancex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't listen to them. as a guy who knows what it's like to be treated like crap, i've tried to make myself look better, be smarter, be stronger. and of all of those things, nothing else mattered but being myself. also, try to find something you are good at. for me it was music. take this thing and run with it. this can help you keep up your confidence. good luck!
2007-01-14 07:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by rock god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need to ask yourself why are people treating you that way, maybe its them but most of the time its because of you in some way, shape or form. some people do treat people like crap so you need to look at these people that are treating you like that and figure out if its just you or others as well. if they do that to everyone else then space yourself from them and keep your distance because no one deserves to be treated poorly. if its just you then maybe your treating them the way they treat you. and you need to change but only if its you thats the problem
2007-01-06 10:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♫That'll be the Day♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋