okay...my sister is 16. she dates a guy who is 17. they have been dating for 2yrs and 3mon. she loves him..but. there is a guy she has known for 3yrs and she cares so much for him, she is always thinking about him and talking about him...she says she is crushing on him but he's 14...and she thinks it would be weird if she told him...they always flirt and stuff..but i have no good advice for her!!! i have no clue what to tell her..anything would help.
&& i know the age factor is kind of weird, but please...help me out.
2007-01-06 10:36:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, since she has been with the older guy for so long, it's probably better if it stays that way. She'll be going off to college soon and the younger guy probably isn't really ready for a commitment yet, so it's better if they stay close friends. Plus, it isn't fair for the 17-year old to get dumped because she has started to crush on a younger guy.
Good luck to you and your sister and all the guys, lol! ;-)
2007-01-06 10:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, lucky 14 yo.
Tell her to stick with the older guy... or does she want to be laughed at when she brings a 14 yr old to her JR Prom.
2007-01-06 19:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she can try talking to the younger guy and get to know him better and see which one she prefers. She can ask each of them where they see there relationship going in a couple of years.
2007-01-06 18:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by petra_sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋